I'm 17 and is it strange that I like older men, other than boys my age?

[Anonymous]

[RaeSheBae]

That's super normal I felt the same way when I was your age.
I really never dated anyone in the same school as me (or in school in geneal) or someone that works at the same job...
I like my privacy and when I was 17 I wanted guys that would be in college. They look way more mature and stuff with their own place, a car...
No one what's to be at home with parents and boyfriend Is way better if one of y'all has it's own place, makes things better.
The guys I dated were at least 3-4 years older than me and 23 would be my limit at that age.
But be careful because you might think that the older they guy is the better the relationship would be. Remember there are fuck boys everywhere and the older ones are the worst but if you find the right guy I promise you, you'll have a great time :D

[AngelicBrazilian]

No girl, a lot of women like older men! You're normal! When I was 17 I was crazy about older guys. Boys your age are usually immature and if you're sexually active they have no clue what they're doing. Just be safe!

[Asker]

Thanks :) and I will

[karahiri]

nah. this is my anthem:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3LzWUAkpNrQ

[Notorisch_Arschloch]

I'm 33 and not even willing to fake interest in girls over 22. I don't have a problem finding young women interested in me, so no, it's not strange at all.

Just mind your local age of consent. If you're in one of the states that has it at 18 (actually the least common state legal age of consent) don't go getting anyone in trouble.

[WalterRadio]

It is not strange at all, but you have to hold back until you are 18.

[Asker]

Understood

[Sara413]

It's normal for you to find older men attractive, but it's not normal or ok for them to get involved with you... 18 or 19, fine, but a dude in his 20s shouldn't have any interest in a 17 y/o

[Asker]

1- I'm not involved with anyone, it was a simple question.
2- I'm going to be 18 in a month.
3-don't jump to conclusions

[Sara413]

I wasn't intending to jump to any conclusions. I just know what it was like being 17 and not realizing how creepy 20 something guys were who paid me attention... and it got me hurt. So I worry about other young girls and just want you to be less naive than I was.

[Asker]

Thank you for being supportive and I understand that creeps like that can hurt people, I'm not planning to be involved with them but I just find them attractive, but I will keep you advise in mind :)

[Sara413]

Glad to hear it :)

[AnayaWilliams]

It's not strange at all, it's normal. I prefer older men over guys my age because they are much more mature and have a better head on there shoulders. And also know what they want out of life.

[Anonymous]

No , because i always prefered older guys. I've always been mature for my age , and couldn't build a rapport with guys my own age. I found older guys were on the same wave length as myself. Younger guys seemed too immature

[cynochroma]

No, not really. All my boyfriends have been a consistent 2 years older. It's just boys our age are so immature and irresponsible

[coolbreeze2]

Not strange but just be aware that that can bring problems and hazards such as acceptance from your friends

[edwinteague]

It's normal, and ultimately irrelevant so long as the attraction is between two consenting adults.

[Mika77ahhhok]

yeah I'm the same way ur not weird or anything. I like old guys 😁

[ammar9]

its normal , girls usually likes older men in most cases

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

No, usually teen girls fall for older guys so it's normal.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

When it becomes a problem if a girl age 17, has sex with a older guy than it can be considered illegal and get the guy in trouble , wouldn't be a problem if she waits to she's age 18.

[jessiie06]

How much older? Girls usually like older guys but usually by a few years.

[Asker]

For my age rn I prefer them in their twenties

[jessiie06]

Like 20-21 or 28-29.

[Asker]

Just not too old

[jessiie06]

Okay because I would say 20-21 is fine and completely normal. I would say till about 22. At 25 he would be getting abit old for you but then again this is my opinion :) as long as you feel happy and safe.

[Asker]

Yes I understand :) I agree

[Nadzzz]

Ask bellepepper she's good at haunting girls who like older guys and guys who like younger girls

[jess777]

you know back in the day young girl, with older guy, ok then he grow old passes , then she gets a younger guy, then she grows older and passes, that way win win situate- sun.

[Anonymous]

no its common, what is your relationship like with your dad?

[sexcrazy12]

nothing wrong with it. many older guys like younger girls.

[UndercoverAlien]

It's only natural because scientifically it's been proven that girls mature faster than men or boys in that case :)

[Ovidiu-Nicolae]

For you is ok, though I started to like older girls then me is that really normal?

[Anonymous]

at that age i liked older girls too. makes sense because of anatomical development. I didn't quite understand what was going on back then.

[Katherine3110hun]

No I'm the same way and I'm also 17.

[zorro8888]

It's practically the norm at this point.

[xCutesyLolitax]

no its called daddy complex
and same