Girls, How do I eat healthier without my mother noticing?

[Anonymous]

This requires some description, but I'll make it quick.
My mother has put on a lot of weight very quickly, and she keeps bringing home really unhealthy food on a daily basis (candy & cakes, mostly) based on impulsive cravings.
Whenever she gets something for me, I really want to turn it down, but when I do she looks at me strangely and starts to talk about how "anorexia is dangerous in teenage girls' and 'you shouldn't cut back on food because you have to keep your weight up for sports.'
So I end up eating it because I don't want her to feel bad, but I also don't want to harm myself. I don't need a chocolate bar and pound cake every day, especially when I'm training for soccer and track. I feel like she might just feel bad about herself, but I don't want to say anything. Any suggestions?

[kaylaS91]

Just tell her that there are healthier ways to 'keep your weight up for sports' than giving your body a regular shot of sugar and processed foods.

You shouldn't feel the need to compromise your health because she's arrogant. Next time she offers you a chocolate bar or whatever, just say 'no thank-you. I'd rather have some lean chicken breast/quinoa/veggie mix, etc.'

[Kiwedin]

Be honest with her, because I don't think she's being honest with herself. She's treating her body like shit and shouldn't make you feel bad for actually caring about yours. Just tell her that you value your health and tell her that being healthy isn't some type of eating disorder, it's just being smart.

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

Next time she says that say "yeah mom you know what else is just as dangerous obesity, heart disease, kidney failure, and diabetes." Just ask her to eat healthier with you but you won't slowly kill yourself behind her needs to not want to eat pound cakes and cookies by herself. It isn't fair to yours or her body.

[Asker]

She's verrry arrogant... She's survived breast cancer and was a model as a child, so she thinks she knows everything. Really this has just been the last three years.
I'll try it though