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Search Results: how long does it take to get over a crush
Is my gym crush potentially interested in me back, or is it one sided and just in my head?
Straight to the point, I’m very attracted to a guy in the gym. We’ve never spoken and while I can’t say I have a huge crush on him because I don't know him, but I’m trying to interpret if he feels the attraction the same...
electraspamacc
Xper 1 Age: 27 A Warning to New Yorkers on Mamdani’s Victory: The Corrupt and Exploitative Nature of Socialism
With Zohran Mamdani’s election as NYC’s new mayor, I can’t help but hope he falls flat on his face, that the city craters under his policies, and that the voters who put him there get every last bit of what they voted...
DexWest
Xper 7 Age: 33 Americans don't know how to improve their democracy or their country because they didn't have to work for it.
Most of the progress going from monarchies and all powerful chruches to democracies happened in Europe. The U.S. had the luck to be founded right when people were already 90% towards democracy but they didn't have to...
Lynx122
Master Age: 36 What It's Like Prepping For And Living Through a Hurricane
If you are watching the news in the US lately, you'll know that this year has been particularly bad along the East and Gulf coast in terms of hurricanes forming that have or will effect the US like the current hurricane...
Anonymous
(36-45) How serious is he about based on the info below?
Based on the info below, how serious does he seem to be about us? It’s been established weeks ago he’s not a player so let’s not bring that up. He is 29 and I’m 37. 1. He texts me all day every day, for weeks now. 2....
Anonymous
(30-35) Please help a gal in her 30s. It's been 6 months; how long does a crush take to die out?
I met through a language learning app a man about my age in November last year. We have been speaking frequently since then but especially nearly every day since January this year. My target language has improved...
Anonymous
(36-45) Can anyone help me understand this guy and what does he want?
Warning!! Long Post So basically there’s this guy at school a grade lower than me, that I’ve been crushing on for a while. We had so many tension moments between us but yet never had a conversation with each other. So a...
Anonymous
(18-24) Have you ever read a book that brought you to tears because of how close the main character mirrors your own life?
I just started reading this new book, where this guy who was 18, got a job on a farm run by an older lady (older by his standards 27). That's not the part that mirrors me though. It's his back story. His mother and...
worldscolide
Master Age: 43 Is she a bad friend or does she just have a crush on me?
I have this work friend who sometimes flirts but says she's flirted with friends. We play argue a lot and we’ve also drunkenly made out 4 times. I initiated because I was celebrating something but she said she didn’t...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does my friend actually want to secretly date me?
I have this friend who sometimes flirts with me but shrugs it off as platonic and I think it’s because we work together. We play argue a lot and I feel like it builds up tension and we’ve also drunkenly kissed 4 times. I...
Anonymous
(25-29) HOT TAKE: Having A Type Is Unhealthy In A Long Term Relationship and Here's Why
Well for starters, let's clearly define what it means to have a "type." Your type is what you're attracted to, whether it's firm abs or a nice booty or maybe even a certain hair color! But what you're attracted to changes...
Z1pTD
Xper 7 Age: 25 Why me and this girl have this kind of relationship after what happend?
That girl had a crush on me for a very long time. When we became friends her friends were telling me she likes me all the time. After some time we got closer. We kissed few times and we went out. Things were looking well....
Anonymous
(25-29) How long does it take for you to get over a crush?
Normally, I get over my crushes in 2-3 months. How about yourself?
WonderBell99
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Monalisa77
Xper 6 Age: 38 I'm moving overseas soon but i've caught feelings for someone what should I do?
I have been single for nearly 2 years as I knew I was moving and didn't want to let a relationship get in the way. Just my luck I ended up meeting someone on a night out, both of our intentions were just a one night...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why don't more men learn how to flirt?
One of the weird aspects of hearing guys here talk about their struggles with dating is that almost none of them seem to know how to flirt. It seems like every time a guy talks about his issues, everything is super...
RolandCuthbert
Editor Age: 54 Why is my guy friend like this?
I’m friends with this guy at work & we’ve gotten close over the last few months. We’ve hung out a few times & though I have feelings for him, he has said he does not, but that I’m his closest friend. In the first few...
Anonymous
(25-29) How to fix The Little Mermaid to please (almost) everyone
I never thought as a child that the day would come that something as inane as The Little Mermaid would turn into a battle in the Culture War, nor that it would get this heated! But apparently, Disney lately just can't...
ObscuredBeyond
Guru Age: 43 Does if seem possible this guy I have a crush on likes me?
So I have a crush on a boy on my uni course and we talk in lessons and get on but I am unsure ifhe just wants to be friends or he feels the same way. Obviously I want to take it slow and he might aswell (if he’s...
anoymousunistudent
Xper 3 Age: 23 Why has he been ignoring me and he flaked on me today?
We had a great 2 hour long phone conversation last night and he knew for the past couple days that I miss hanging out with him and he makes me laugh. So he called me last night and it was all good like usual. And he asked...
Anonymous
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