Guy's Behavior
2 mo

Is my gym crush potentially interested in me back, or is it one sided and just in my head?

Straight to the point, I’m very attracted to a guy in the gym. We’ve never spoken and while I can’t say I have a huge crush on him because I don't know him, but I’m trying to interpret if he feels the attraction the same way. My main signs are that he frequently walks past me in whatever area I’m in, more so he always walks right in my line of sight so that I do see him. There’s occasions where I’ll be working out in a certain spot far from him and he will walk right past me no less than 2-3 feet from me when there’s much more easier clearer routes he could’ve taken. Nonetheless I’ll always see him walk past me one way or another, but I’ve never caught him directly looking at me. There’s also the fact he goes longer routes than he needs to. For ex, I was on a machine and he was working out by the weights. There is a water fountain right next to the weights however, when he was done, he walked right towards me and past me to get water that is on the other side of the gym mind you. I’m just wondering why he’d go so much further when there was already a water source close to him. There’s also the occasional eye contact, sometimes he walks past me and I look up at him, we lock eyes for a moment and he continues to walk forward. also been times where I’ve looked over at him and he would be looking at me already. He does workout close to me or at least in vicinity and there was the instance where I was sitting on a bench doing an exercise by the weighs, and he was standing directly in front of me (literally like 2 ft in front of me) doing some exercise with the weights at the weight rack. I can’t tell honestly, he walks past me sometimes with body language that looks like he’s coming to talk to me, but he never does. Right now I feel like we’re in this stage where we notice each other, make eye contact, but nothing happens. I’m wondering if I should make the first move?

Is my gym crush potentially interested in me back, or is it one sided and just in my head?
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