How long does it take for you to get over a crush?

Question

Normally, I get over my crushes in 2-3 months. How about yourself?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well it depends on how much we interacted. If she’s not interested I rather know right away even rudely if need be.

The absolute worst case scenario is when she is semi interested at first but changes her mind (without saying anything) and makes a unilateral decision to friéndzone. Lots of women feel no shame about this setup either. Because they don’t want the attention going away and want to have an “orbiter” around to exploit when need be.

That happened to me more than I like to admit in my younger and more naive days. I wasted a lot of time, chivalry, hope, effort on women deserved absolutely none of it. That was not easy to get over at all. Because it was a respect issue. Not only did I end up hating her but I ended up hating myself for being suckered. I have zero good memories of any women who friendzoned me. Absolutely nothing positive comes to mind when I remember them.

But the hard past lessons have given effective radar on identifying that crap (some older women still think that about bs okay). So I get over disappointments quickly now. I know when to quit.

razelove · Accepted Answer

The moment I get a date or rejection by them. A crush is only a difficult thing if you never try to see how things would play out. If you make an honest attempt, even if it's a small one, there's no regrets or obsessions there.

Things just go as they'll go, which can even be completely terrible, but I look back on a life without regrets :)

Pinay_ako · Answer

Depends. But a crush is just a crush. Sometimes I’m over it before it even begins. I crush the feeling before I get into deep

ohsheeT · Answer

First of all you have to understand what a crush is a crush is somebody that comes into your life allows you to be you and allows moments for you to express who you are and what you're all about so many times you were here when somebody breaks up this person made me feel this this person made me feel like that this person made me feel all these wonderful things but what you have to understand is that person didn't make you feel anything you allowed yourself to feel those things those feelings only came from you because you're the only one inside your body that can give yourself those feelings with that person did is that person allowed you to be you an open doors with inside of you to express yourself this Freedom this beauty and allowed you to feel those moments of who you really are because nobody has ever opened those doors for you before most people think about it as love I'd love this person cuz they made me feel this way no that person opened up the door for you with inside of your body for you to be able to express the beauty that you have Within you have so much knowledge and so many things inside of you and they're not going to come out until somebody opens that door for you somebody gets you in that moment in time where you can express yourself all those feelings that you felt all came from you nobody else so you have to understand that it was all you he just opened those stores inside of your heart inside your mind so you could express how you feel and it is beautiful it was a beautiful moment but it all came from you that's how you get over it you understand that

DizzyDesii · Answer

I can get over exes easily like a week tops. But crushes are very hard to get over because it comes and goes then comes back. Like some people i’m crushing on this year are people i liked years ago then couldnt stand for a while and then like em again 🤣

BullShark · Answer

It all depends on how much we interacted, how close we got, and whether or not we're still in contact. Like for me mostly, I don't get a crush on random people I may see or cross paths with on random. For me to develop a crush on someone (which itself is rare considering I have very specific tastes in girls), I have to connect with them on a certain level.

First and foremost, we must have had a proper conversation where we exchanged information like names, interests and maybe even phone numbers. After that, we must be talking for a while and that too, regularly. After that if, and ONLY if I develop a crush on them, it all boils down to what I see in them that I liked so much, and if we're still keeping in contact. If we stop talking altogether, I'll get over them within a week or so. And if we were really close and they hurt me or something, it may take longer. Probably a month.

catiecatie · Answer

Can honestly depend on the situation and how they treat me. I had this crush, I asked him for drinks and he told me he was talking to someone. Alright well I tried. I think I kept that crush for about 5 months until I found another guy I’m currently crushing on! This one has only been for a little over a month and I think the feeling is mutual. At least that’s what my male friends say to me when I ask them about the stuff he’s doing.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I usually take a few months on the lower side, depending on how long we were together. It was a few years after my wife passed that I started seeing someone else, it took my daughter setting me up with one of her school teachers.

Blackcupcake · Answer

I don’t remember the last time I had a crush on someone… and I don’t develop crushes either… hahaha. but if someone catches my eye, my interest will last for as long as I see them, which is minutes or even seconds

On_cloud_wine · Answer

It’s been over 3 years and still non stop thinking of this person so I’m thinking it’s more than a crush?

Monalisa77 · Answer

Its more than a crush now since last September. I didn't expect to be feeling like this now, it really feels like we should be going out its that strong (and i know what people have been saying but then i dont think id be feeling like this if they were right)

itsalyssaagain · Answer

I don’t get over things easily. Like 1-2 years at least 😭

Anonymous · Answer

Depends how long I'm mentally in a relationship with them.😆 This is why I don't allow that. Either I ask them out, or I don't allow myself to feel anything for them. Because if I ask them out and they don't feel the same then it's over. There's nothing to feel bad about. But if I allow myself to feel something for her and she doesn't know that and doesn't feel the same then it hurts when she turns me down.

Anonymous · Answer

Usually the same, like I had a crush on my friend but it away, this time it's lasting longer with my co worker, because he's giving me mixed signals, like as soon I realize we will just be friends he just starts to throw all kinds of mixed signals and it just confuses me so much lol

Anonymous · Answer

I still have a crush on a girl i haven't seen in a year. But i was scared to ask her out because i wasn't exactly in the greatest shape. I was very fat so i had a feeling she would say no. But im trying to change myself and lose more weight to get better confidence with girls.

art84 · Answer

When a girls shows interest in you then backs away and moves to another person who she is interested in. The good thing is I wasn't friends with this girl nor was she interested in me.  Took a year as I always thinking about her and couldn't stop. It wasn't until I saw that she had a baby and gotten married was when I got over the crush. Still kinda hurt seeing her married with a baby looking like the perfect family.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I have really had a crush since middle school. I get over a break up really quickly. Only once did it take more than a day, and that was because neither of us really wanted to part but she left for university on the East Coast and I live and have a business on the Pacific Coast.

sheikalana · Answer

It usually takes some time for me usually around 6 months. But after my last relationship I met someone after 1/2 months and got into a serious relationship with my current partner.

molonski2 · Answer

I think this question is very age dependent , as a tennager there may be lots of crushes , quite frequent , makes it pretty easy to move on , not sure you can put a time limit on as each interaction is different.

strateguy632 · Answer

just a couple days. lovers took me longer a couple weeks

Wisdom-Strength-Love · Answer

Well if you have an inactive sex life, basically could be as little as the potential opportunity or a person who expresses crushing in you, or as long as never getting over

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bedroomeyes · Answer

It depends on how much I actually liked the guy and the strength of our relationship outside of the crush. Some crushes are over in a day. Some in a year.

RHK36 · Answer

Depends on you really. Whether you are dwelling on it, keeping yourself occupied, your mind ready for a new relationship etc. The older you get and the more experience you acquire will make it easier when it comes to heartbreak.

Legendarylegacy13 · Answer

Why do you have to get over a crush? I like having crushes on people especially when their younger sometimes when their older not having sex with them is important to not mess it up... lol

DJB72 · Answer

My first crush was when I was 5. I'm now 51. I'll let you know once I'm completely over her...

abc3643 · Answer

The answer to this question is very easy: Until the next crush comes along.

Anonymous · Answer

It’s taking me a minute and I don’t know why… (7 months) I really like him … even tho I did stonewall him.. insecurity.. I thought he seemed interested but now he’s in a happy relationship with a model.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Good couple hours, but to be fair it's a really rough couple hours. Other fish and whatnot...

boobliker · Answer

I don't think you ever do get over them I am old and 50 years I had a crush who moved away, I still think of her every day, but I do still like all the girls I ever went out with about 20

Avicenna · Answer

A day or two

sheenagwapa · Answer

a matter of minutes because if you shit on me my feelings go away instantly

Andres77 · Answer

A crush is like a ghost. Some have been visiting me for years. I just had a dream about one from 25 years ago this morning.

Sedusa_ · Answer

I am still currently trying to get over someone who has been my crush for the last 3 years. I wish I knew the way to get over him. He's the only guy that I haven't been able to stop thinking about.

Wild_princess · Answer

Depends on person, usually till my see their face😂

Jamie05rhs · Answer

That all depends whether someone else comes along. If I'm still single, then I still have real estate in my brain for her to take up.

Summeroflove · Answer

Wow this depends

AimeeKyle · Answer

It depends on how attached or how much they are in my heart.

RingOfFire · Answer

What crush? Oh her? I already forgot about her! 🤣

Noah2023 · Answer

Depends If she did me wrong or not, If she did me wrong than it’s going to take a while. If not then it would be 1 week max

shades777 · Answer

depends on you, but if you ask me, should take approximately 65 days 13 hours and 11 seconds and 5 milliseconds give or take or take a few years

EaterPeter · Answer

Depends, who, why, what, when, some women have taken a while could not stop thinking of them for days weeks early on in life month or longer

Anonymous · Answer

Depends. If I can't I'll just turn off my emotions.

Anonymous · Answer

I haven't had a crush since high school. You grow out of that nonsense.

Babygirl_S · Answer

I never get over if he shows even subtle signs of interest.

Anonymous · Answer

pretty much not until someone else enters my life that makes me feel all tingly and whatever. Then I can stop thinking about that other person much easier.

zagor · Answer

One, it took me years to get over. But usually, out of sight, out of mind.

In_Trance · Answer

I don't understand this at all  If it's a crush, what is there to get over

driven159 · Answer

two seconds life is too short to waste time for nothing

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

That all depends on how much I liked them. Is it always 2 to 3 months for you

lezthar · Answer

The number I found was up to 2 years, depending on the level of attatchment.

alearningboy · Answer

Im very quick in love it can take days for me I think. Never had it before.

Anonymous · Answer

I still masturbate to my 2nd grade teacher. She was a hot milf…

Miristheiss · Answer

15 days, 3 hours, 7 minutes and 23 seconds.

MementoMori777 · Answer

That would depend if I fall for my crush or not

BadApple69 · Answer

I’m still not over some crashes.

KaiidiraX · Answer

I crush all the time. No big deal to me.

Simslover92 · Answer

It took 6 years to get over my last one.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Almost immediately lmao

BrookeS · Answer

Ill let you know when it happens 🤣

Iron_Man · Answer

A crush or a long-term relationship

Christoff92 · Answer

Depending on what I see of her

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