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Search Results: how to get guys to not hit on you
How can an average-looking guy get real dates in 2026 without dating apps?
What are some ways an average looking guy can get a date in 2026? Dating apps don't work, or if they do it's usually women I'm not attracted too. I've always been told I'm funny, I can hold a convo and a good listener but...
SoggyPajamas
Xper 1 Age: 19 How can I approach women respectfully without feeling like I’m bothering them?
So in order to get a date, I have to actually talk to women, right? The problem is... I feel bad about talking to women in public. Let's negate more common areas where being hit on is more expected, like the bar, a club,...
Anonymous
(18-24) Are these friendly baristas actually flirting with me or just being nice?
I go to cafes to get coffee a lot. Sometimes, the male baristas would be handsome young guys with super sunny, dreamy eyes when I make eye contact with them. The type of look almost as if they want to hit on me. I don't...
Anonymous
(25-29) How to slow down without hitting the breaks on a new flirtatious association?
I just met a guy (a few years older, nothing crazy). Seems nice. He approached me... which I like. Has good gentlemanly manners... which I like. He works in an industry I understand... which is good, so we can talk shop...
Ladies, is it true that you're able to tell if a guy is hitting on you out of love or lust?
#1 really caught my attention. I mean here in America at least 95% of the women love to act innocent and deflect things in order to play hard to get. however back in my native country is the polar opposite. if...
Phunk_Fenomenon
Xper 4 Age: 39 
How do I change my view on men?
I turned 23 this year, and since middle school I haven't been able to view any guy in a positive light with my dad being the only exception. in middle school my mom moved us to the area I live in to this day, it's...
Anonymous
(18-24) I didn’t realize I was in a Situationship. ?
Long story short met a guy, he pursued me, I barely had to do anything for a whole year but we clicked and got along. I’m 32 years old. never been taking out in public with a guy ever. first guy to acknowledge me and...
Anonymous
(30-35) You noticed? the problems in the 'very popular' flower song?
something is fishy! good songs are not a surprise, when they succeeded, but look at the ingredients in this 'success'. it was boosted "won Grammy Awards: one for 'Record of the Year' and 2 'Best Pop Solo Performance' for...
strateguy632
Master Age: 50 Is it okay to hang out with the opposite gender while in a relationship?
I "I'm in a relationship, and it's going to be two years in a few days. A lot of people hit on me even after I say I'm taken, and my family thinks I should still talk and hang out with other guys. And yeah, I get having...
Nvrsn15fit
Xper 6 Age: 27 Why did the guy I was dating suddenly get distant and mean when everything was going good?
I started dating a guy back in early Jan. We hit it off right away. Every date he would always have little comments, tho, telling me I deserve better, should run, and that this is him. We've both been through bad...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why did the guy I was dating suddenly get mean and distant?
I started dating a guy back in early Jan. We hit it off right away. Every date he would always have little comments, tho, telling me I deserve better, should run, and that this is him. We've both been through bad...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why did he turn mean and suddenly leave right after we got so close?
I started dating a guy back in early Jan. We hit it off right away. Every date he would always have little comments, tho, telling me I deserve better, should run, and that this is him. We've both been through bad...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do I cope with lifelong loneliness and never having a relationship?
Im in my late 20s and long story short; never had a boyfriend or even dated. I never had friends. I never had a relationship with my family. Every social interaction goes horribly wrong whether i speak or not so i can't...
77five
Xper 5 Age: 27 Is he losing interest or just busy? How do I decode his texts and mixed signals?
So, I am not the best date, but I want to try to be. I met this new guy around December and instantly we hit it off. We would text almost every day, he would plan dates for us (even got upset that i had to pay for one...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why does karma always seem to hit back when people mess with me?
I've always noticed karma always comes my way in life. Im a very out spoken person and if I don't like what someone is doing im quick to call them out on it. Because im a woman and its usually men im calling out on...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it okay to cut off an abusive brother from my life forever?
So recently my brother got mad over me telling him I didn't care for the fact he took me to the pier without asking he just said get in his car. He told me to stay away or he'll get police involved. He used to abuse me...
Anonymous
(30-35) Do you make use of your free will?
I was at a pizzeria and I'm looking at the menu, they have calzones but the spinach and cheese one has no meat... So I'm like hey are these calzones made to order? Yes What do you think about putting sausage in there? The...
Why are my cheating ex and his mistress so obsessed with blaming me?
My children father ( kids Ages 3 and 5) has been cheating on me with his mistress on and off since the beginning of our relationship. At first I didn't know but things started to come out. He would plan trips out of...
Anonymous
(30-35) Have you ever been falsely arrested because of a partner’s lies?
I was arrested by my crazy ex wife a few weeks ago for her attacking me while I was sleeping on bed , she came into my bedroom like a bat out of hell and smacked me hard across the face , I immediately jumped got up and...
Why do so many Americans here assume everyone else is American?
I know im gonna piss a lot of you off here and i know your not all like this but im finding it incredibly frustrating on this site how many Americans assume everyone else is American and lives life like an American and...
MissPiggy2025
Xper 4 Age: 28 