Search Results: attracting the wrong girls

Advice for Guys: Avoid Unclean Women

Let me tell you a story about a girl I used to know, who actually turns out to be a few years older than me but who lied about her age because she looked very young, even younger than myself, and a lot of people often...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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Have similar ever happened to you? (Relation with mental illness, addiction) How to treat the others they invite in your life you feel is bad news?

I've been in a situation now for a while that has triggered things from my past. It's when I am in a relationship with someone who turns mentally ill (after mostly knowing them for years or long period of time before). It...

Noredcarpet

Xper 5 Age: 46

Why do most black women refuse or won’t date outside of their race?

I have a friend that I’ve known since 6th grade. She’s funny, intelligent, beautiful, witty and kindhearted. Great friends, family but no boyfriend. She’s dated a while back but she only dates black men. I understand most...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you think a girl that flashed her boobs at you is girlfriend material?

I am actually attracted to her and consider her a friend (we work together) and thought she is girlfriend material. She always acts respectful and classy but the other day, when we were at a job, she was calling my name...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you think some people are just born to be sluts , or is it because of how they were treated?

And yes Guys’ and Girls’ both can be sluts , , do you think they were born that way or they became that way because of what they experienced in life? Most of our choices and decisions in life stem down to our childhood ,...

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

Is it wrong that I'm not interested in starting a relationship with women older than 28, and I'm 32?

I've been putting a lot of work into finding my soulmate the last few years. I have a good life and great job, the one thing missing in my life is the girl of my dreams. I really want to find my special someone to spend...

Cool3991

Xper 1 Age: 32

Is she interested or not?

Hey, There is a girl that I'm interested in, but I don't want to read the situation wrong. She often places herself in my proximity. We can both be in a wide open public space, but somehow she will end up in my line of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why does my sister and best friend think I’m dating the wrong man?

I’ve been seeing this guy I met at college for three months and I really do like him. He’s funny, smart, honest and he’s so cute. Love that he does not take shit from anyone. I really like him but lately I keep thinking...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do I ALWAYS attract older or shorter men?

I am 5’9” and even though it isn’t very tall, it’s tall for a woman. I always look massive around my shorter friends because my girl pals are 5’5-4’9. They always get cute guys or any guy’s attention, especially tall men...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Maybe love isn’t for me?

I don’t know. Just like any other ordinary girl, I long to love and to be loved. To the point where it becomes desperation because it never arrives. Not once in my life have I had a boyfriend. I am 20 with zero...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Does this means I’m ugly or just unlovable? Does this make me a femcel?

Does this mean I'm ugly or unattractive, or is there something wrong with me? I seem to attract rude, disrespectful guys, or guys who talk about harming themselves. I do block and ignore these guys, but it's really...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girls, Is it ok if I'm not the macho man type?

All the macho man types I've seen in life are pure assholes violent and have serious substance abuse issues. They're violent to their children and wives. They cheat all the time and teach their sons it's ok to do so. They...

Hellraiser1984

Explorer Age: 42

Was my friend right for insulting my friend and I for being thin? Why we insulted her body?

One time we’re going to a pool party and we all discussed about our bathing suits. Let’s call my friends S and L. So after we hung up and left her a message, L and I were talking about S’s size and if she would look good...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why has this guy at work all of sudden started avoiding me?

So I have a guy at my new job who is super outgoing and talks to everyone and is a jokester and is really funny. He’s about five years older than me. On my first day he introduced himself to me and joined in my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why is he now going out of his way to avoid me?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this double standards? What’s the black guys problem?

I'm a light-skinned Black girl who loves pale and tan guys. I like to express my preferences on dating apps or apps for finding friends so I attract my preference. I've noticed that whenever I mention my preference for...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Flirting

Am I the only one who thinks it’s cute and sweet when guys slide into a girl’s DMs to try to get to know her?

I’m a big supporter of giving any man who wants to date you a chance, especially at my age. I personally believe women should be married and if a woman makes it to my age without being married, she can still find a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Things men HATE that women do

Obviously all men and women are different so if you have a different opinion as a man that’s okay as well as not all women possess these traits. But it’s not all about looks ladies there are many traits that turn guys off...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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