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When I was 23 I got pregnant with my past boyfriend at the time. We both wanted a baby so we tried for one then I ended up pregnant. His parents were supported and his friends were supportive too. I announced my pregnancy to his friends and he congratulated us. Me and him were still living with our parents at the time. I was planning on living at his parents house after the baby was born. We both had part time jobs. But my mom found out I was pregnant and was very pissed and not supportive at all and made me have an abortion because I wasn’t ready for a baby yet. She thought that it wasn’t the right time because I wasn’t settled and I only had a part time job and he did too. I ended up having the abortion when I wanted the baby and he did too and my ex boyfriend was mad I gotten the abortion. there isn’t a day where I don’t think about it and see how my life would be like as a mother at that time. But I know other girls that gotten pregnant while still living with their parents and their parents were very supportive. Could me being autistic be the reason my mom made me have an abortion? Should I have kept the baby and moved in with my ex bf’s parents house because I was adult who can make decisions? Some people think that I should have kept the baby and moved in with his parents because I’m an adult and should have not listened to my mom! What do you think about this?

My ex/best friend sees it different from a soulmate and I agree. He said it can be platonic. But it's basically the other half of your own soul while a soulmate is separate from your own soul. They are just in your soul family.

We both were and still are under the influence (I'm high and he is drunk) though so this may not make much sense lol

But he doesn't believe in soulmates but believes in twin flames. And I think I do too. I think we are twin flames because we think so much alike now. It's insane.

Here's the Google definition-

A twin flame is a spiritual concept for an intense soul connection with someone seen as your "mirror soul" or "other half," originating from one soul split into two bodies; these relationships are characterized by profound recognition, deep mirroring of strengths and weaknesses, and are meant to trigger significant spiritual growth and healing through challenging experiences, acting as catalysts for personal evolution rather than necessarily being a traditional lifelong romance.