My fiance has an ex girlbest friend?

[Babygirlwashere96]

Ok so my fiance and I talked about his former female best friend.

He told me they met back in 2022 when he was In a rehab program and when he was getting ready to leave he asked when he finished if he could have her number she agreed but he forgot.

They went on two dates but they never labeled it anything between them.

They had sex twice.

She was still his friend when he was with his ex who is now in jail.

She lived with him and another guy friend in his apartment because she supposedly didn't have anywhere to go. But my question is he for real when he said that he will stop being friends with her because im not comfortable but will they be sneaking behind my back I trust him but her I so do not trust also she works at my job and he will be coming back to the job in a couple of months.

Also she called him and me both a hoe and im not one.

[lightbulb27]

That's not a question.

she's not a best friend.

Keep her far away, there's to be no conversations. If one occurs, all is shared with you. no engagement at work outside of job duties.

must be open book.

else, big trouble.

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah no, he needs to drop her pronto.. No contact ever again.. Especially since they had sex and went and dates.. They were more than friends.. Not to mention she talks about you guys behind your backs..

[Anonymous]

They went on two dates and had sex both times? Sounds kinda slutty.

[Babygirlwashere96]

Yeah

[AI Opinion]

Sounds like you're dealing with a classic case of tangled pasts! Your fiancé’s ex-best friend seems to be holding onto that “ghost of relationships past” vibe. It's awesome you trust him, but if it's a red flag for you, it's worth addressing. Communication is key, so let him know how you feel without pointing fingers. After all, you're both on the same team now, right? 💑 As for your fiance, you gotta lock it down with those trust vibes and clear boundaries, like peanut butter and jelly! Keep the faith. 😉

[Alex-Snow]

It seems like a red flag. He only had sex wo times with her? Ummm I find that hard to believe. He should stop all contact with her, block her and focus on you. Has it affected your sex life with him?

[Babygirlwashere96]

No its not i got one of my friends swooping in and is gonna keep her around and do stuff with her.

[Alex-Snow]

Good plan... have fun!

[CherryLove007]

Tiktok she needs to be blocked.🍒

[Babygirlwashere96]

She has been blocked

[CherryLove007]

well trust him or track him... or let him get trapped in her spider web.

[Babygirlwashere96]

I do trust him I dont trust her

[CherryLove007]

she is not your concern however he is your commitment. So start seeing her as his ex friend since he said he would ex communicate with her.

[Babygirlwashere96]

She ended up saying she loved him and he said it back he said supposedly he loves her as a friend and then he claims he didn't mean it

[CherryLove007]

@Babygirlwashere96 oh no he is playing with fire. What are you going to do now?

[Babygirlwashere96]

I gave him two options one was him not telling her it again and us being in a relationship still or him be single and him tell her that and do what he wants he claims he only said that to get her to shut up.

[Anonymous]

So what's the problem?

[Babygirlwashere96]

Because she seems like the type who is gonna try and get him to talk to her behind my back and come over to her place and shit