Search Results: being nice or interested

3 d

Are these friendly baristas actually flirting with me or just being nice?

I go to cafes to get coffee a lot. Sometimes, the male baristas would be handsome young guys with super sunny, dreamy eyes when I make eye contact with them. The type of look almost as if they want to hit on me. I don't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

7 d

Am I playing it too safe with women and blocking my own dating chances?

I've been single my whole life because I've always played it safe with women, hiding any interest or trying my best not to confuse flirting with being nice and that usually leaves me confused on how women feel about me....

Anonymous

(18-24)

8 d

How can a shy, quiet girl actually get a boyfriend if guys overlook her?

I do talk but still labeled as quiet. ironically I’m alone all the time cuz I have no boyfriend or husband next to clingy following me 24/7 in a serious relationship chatting laughing. As I don’t have that I’m alone...

Anonymous

(25-29)

16 d

Why do so many women act rude toward men they’re not attracted to?

She will treat him like he’s a second class citizen, a dirty person, a monster, an insect, etc. It doesn’t matter how respectful he is. It doesn’t matter if he’s already married and has no interest in her. It doesn’t...

Anonymous

(30-35)

28 d

When was the last time you talked to a guy who you thought was interested in you?

Last time for sure was in March, that day I didn't want to be bothered tho and I had to tell him several times, no and wait for him to move from the areas I was trying to go to. The other guy at the end of April, im...

Anonymous

(25-29)

1 mo

Is my coworker actually interested in me or am I being delusional?

A bit of a TLDR, I temporary work at a different department at my job for about 10 weeks and I met this woman who was working with me. We both recently went through a breakup and just kinda semi-connected over that but we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

1 mo

Ugh I’m so disgusted how to stop?

Ugh, I don’t know how to stop being rude to most men especially if they are attractive… I hate when attractive men are “nice” or pay attention to me because I just feel like they want an ego boost and I’m never wrong!...

Anonymous

(25-29)

1 mo

Why do men act so into me at first and then just vanish without explanation?

Okay, so I used to be afraid and avoidant of relationships, but kind of got tired of being alone and after a long distance relationship failed, I tried to finally give a chance to something close to me, shortly was seeing...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Influencer Age: 29

Girl's Behavior

1 mo

Am I wrong to feel hurt, and is my friend also at fault for excluding me?

So there was this girl who was not very nice. We had gone for a group hangout. In the end when I was paying for my bill the other two were talking. The not nice one brought up some topic of some plans, not sure if it was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

1 mo

Should I date my 50-year-old dog walking friend with a big age gap?

I started walking little pekingese fifi around 4 weeks ago on the local beach as the weather is starting to improve and I thought it be nice. One morning a staffy came running towards fifi. Fifi is only little and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

2 mo

Have you ever missed a cue that someone was trying to kiss you?

In a nutshell, A bunch of us were going to a comedy show organized by one of my friends. I met one of the guys for dinner beforehand -- my idea not his, so not "a date" to me on any level. It was freezing, so he got an...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Girl's Behavior

2 mo

Why is this girl suddenly being so much nicer and warmer to me?

For context, she and I are in the same Class. I have a crush on a guy in my college class but she doesn't know this. She started becoming much closer to this guy this year and they became friends an he's now part of her...

Prairie_Flow3r

Xper 4 Age: 24

2 mo

Was this guy actually flirting with me or just being weird?

I remember a few years ago, I was standing outside and some guy came up to me saying the charm on my lanyard (that I’m wearing as a necklace) is nice. I explained a little about it. It’s just my roommate got it for me. It...

Anonymous

(18-24)

2 mo

Why is it this generation of men really struggle to take accountability?

At my work im the only female union rep. I essentially do my normal work but kinda act as a let's say lawyer to my colleagues if they get in any trouble at work i can sit in there meeting and defend them and advice from a...

MissPiggy2025

Xper 4 Age: 28

Entertainment & Arts

2 mo

Should bald men be more normalized and romanticized in mainstream media?

I myself am guilty of making fun out of bald men time to time but only out of banter never being actively cruel. My husband is bald himself and shaved all his hair off during covid when he was 27/28 and has never gone...

MissPiggy2025

Xper 4 Age: 28

2 mo

Is modern dating permanently ruined by social media and dating apps?

I was speaking with a friend from another country and he was telling me about the dating culture in his particular country and how many woman are far more interested in lying to you for money especially if your a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

2 mo

Is he still interested after a great first date and then going silent?

I met this guy on a dating app about 3 weeks ago. I sent out the like first. We matched the next day and we started talking right away. He came in very strong and looked very interested. He would reply fast, flirt, make...

Anonymous

(30-35)

2 mo

What is the thing that broke dating for women?

I made a my take on here a while ago about "Men Go Their Own Way". Long story short im not with them. I love ladies. I want it work. Not just for me but like love and romance in general makes the world so much...

Lost_in_the_Woods

Xper 7 Age: 29