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Society in the last 150 years has changed into a do as you want with no gilt or shame. A term called grace of no matter what you do started to be looked at as the new way.

Even with the 3 main religions scriptures saying that is not the case, in fact in the Christian and Jewish faith the two scriptures say the exact opposite. That you are not free to do as you want without being punished by the higher power of the religion. But society has made a new tradition and passed down it as truth.

But why dose it say that in the scriptures of the two... to treat all with respect and acceptance, do not judge (only to judge on what the person shows and tells you themself), treat everyones problems as your own? Because we as humans are dependent on being part of society and the best way to maintain a positive healthy society is for all to accept and help each other.

But now society has become so selfish and judgmental that religion has became a business catering to it. It is also a fact that being real nice is now looked as not normal. What society wants is the freedom to do as one wishes without any negative effects. Now Christian's if you are thinking this is not true. It is in the new testament of your Bible from the first followers (no follower sins, only a child of the devil sins) and the first teacher who is called the son of God said (only the ones who do what the father wants = (what he said to do, how to live like, in the old testament) will go in heaven. This means if you judge someone buy society label you are going against your own god. With religion changing into what society wants comes danger. Because someone with the believe in there heart, mind and soul, that no matter what they do they will have the grace of their god. Has no limit to the devastation they can cause other people. So if their mind breaks from not being accepted and rejected by society because society dose not follow what is written. You end up with what happened in Tumbler Ridge BC

The truth the Medea will never say because it caters to society not truth. People now a days want freedom to treat others the way they want, without being looked as doing any wrong. In society people want the freedom to accept and reject anyone they like without being at fault of consequences, even if it to their own kids.

Emotional abuse is now so common, because people want the freedom to raise their kids as they wish without any negative look. But with that freedom comes responsibly. But that is the problem no one takes responsibility for their actions and so much now that is looked at as normal is Infact abuse. 99.999...% of people who are LGBTQ have been abused as a child. A transgender develops because the child is rejected emotionaly do to the parents wanting a child of the other gender. This makes them grow up thinking they was supposed to be the other gender. This is why the LGBTQ community is so large now, because of emotional abuse.

If someone is rejected by their family what about society. When a mind is rejected by family it looks to society and other members in the community to find a sense of belonging and acceptance, but society is not nice to what it rejects. Society also dose not care about the person only the labels it puts on people. Is it the person who is LGBTQ fault they was abused? Dose being abused make them a bad person? Or maybe it is someone who was wrongly accused and/or charged. But society dose not care about truth only the labels they see that is put on the person by society.

So what happens when a person can not find any acceptance or feeling of belonging? Read this page (psychologicalscience. org/news/releases/social-acceptance-and-rejection-the-sweet-and-bitter. html)

What happened in Tumbler Ridge BC was nothing less then society rejecting and isolating someone who was not accepted by their own family. This made the person to suffer as they seen all others being accepted, they could not take it any more then took revenge.

I noticed over the years that women bring up height excessively more then men do. They not only talk about height in romantic scenarios but with platonic / professional interactions with men as well.

But every time women mentions a man being short, it’s almost always a negative connotation. Even if they like the short guy they will say something like “well he’s not very tall but he’s really cute or funny” or something.

But if a girl doesn’t something else about the short guy (his personality, looks, etc.) they virtually always bring up his height. Especially if they reject the man romantically.

But at the same time guys are less prone to say “well she’s really sweet & cool despite being overweight” out loud. We might be thinking that but we are not allowed by modern culture to say that because it’s “too mean” or something.

I am 6ft so fortunately height isn’t an issue for me. Like anyone I notice other people’s heights in most situations but I don’t immediately factor that into my judgment of people.

I once dated a girl who was 5’ 11’’. Despite my favorite female body type being cute, petite and athletic, her being tall and skinny was virtually a non issue for me. It did make things slightly more complex in bed (shorter girls are more versatile) But I didn’t really care that much. It was like factor number 37 out of 50 for me.

Also I don’t notice height at all in platonic and professional interactions with women or men. I don’t asume a really short guy or a really tall girl might have a negative personality right away. Some short guys do have napoleon syndromes. I’ve met a few short loud mouthed dbags. But overall that stereotype is often exaggerated.

I guess height judgment is evolutionary for females. But women need to understand that men have no control over their height whatsoever.

If you are more attracted to taller men then fine. But if you don’t like a shorter guy than don’t throw out his height as one of his “faults” like he had a choice in the matter.