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ANY NAMES IN THIS STORY ARE NOT REAL NAMES, THEY'RE COVER UP NAMES

I am a 17 year old girl. Last year due to reason I will not share on here I swore to never fall in love again. Anyways, 5 months later I fell in love with a "16 year old". In September of this year, he asked me out and I accepted. My new boyfriend never gave me any reason to not trust him. Then recently, his ex, Paisley, asked me how old I was and I told her. She asked why he'd date a 17 year old because he's 13 and just turned 13 last month. I told her I was confused because he told me he was 16 and turned 17 last month. I asked a couple of his other exes, Harley and Kaylee, how old he said he was to them. He told Harley and Kaylee he was 15, Paisley he was 13, and told me he was 16. I asked boyfriend why Paisley was saying he was 13 and he said "I'm not. She likes to lie a lot. Maybe she's just jealous" After I talked with boyfriend I talked with his exes again and Harley said she thinks he's lying about his age to date us since he gave us all different ages. Harley and Kaylee both say he looks 13 and I do have to agree that he does look young, but once he said he has a baby face for a teenager. Honestly at this point I don't know who to trust because it's all so confusing. Who do you guys think I should trust or what should I do?

Boyfriend booked a trip for a few days to spend time with a friend. I casually asked how they met since he lives across the country. He says they used to be roommates.

I noticed a friend suggestion on fb and noticed the friend he's going to see had the same last name as his ex. Turns out, his friend is his ex girlfriend's brother.

I think it's a tad dishonest he didn't tell me, but maybe he doesn't see the guy as his ex gfs brother?

More backstory: They broke up 2 years ago and a few weeks ago she called him and said nasty things about me (we don't know each other, so she just said a bunch of prejudiced things). One of his friends overheard the conversation and told me about it.

A few weeks later, he's flying to meet up with her brother (i dont think these things are related). She will not be there. He's not going to see her. She lives in another state and won't be there when he's there. I'm sure of that.

Just looking for different perspectives. It's not the end of the world, it just puts a bad taste I'm my mouth.

30f 31m