I met this guy two weeks ago. I got out of a relationship months ago and planned on using this guy to get over my ex. But this was before I met him. I felt terrible about it after getting to know him and admitted it to him. He had no feelings about it and said he understood but can't stop bringing it up.
We were going out and he acted like a boyfriend as well as talk to me like one soon as we got to know each other. He was paranoid that i've been talking to other guys, was the side guy to a boyfriend and thought i was still talking to my ex. For the past 3 days I am clueless. Out of the blue he hasn't been calling or texting me first and I have to be the one to do it. I call him and he gets shocked that I called him first and told me he wants me to blow up his phone MORE. The only thing is he's been calling me names like friend, buddy, sister on and off for the past three days lately. Friday he did it, Saturday he flirted with me, Today he told me Merry Christmas and I asked how was his day going which he responded with "going great sis" which is something he never did before. I asked him why is he calling me sis which he never responded. I texted him again and no response. I liked him and made it clear to him wanted a relationship. My last relationship I got played and used and told him about it. So to avoid this from happening, day 1, I asked him what were his intentions were and did he like me as I liked him which he said he did. I let him know that I was going to stop talking to him if his intentions were different. I told a close friend of his that I was going to stop talking to him (right after he called me a "friend") which they end up telling him. He told the friend that I have issues and not over my ex. He called me right away and asked what was the problem. We talked, and it was us FLIRTING not friendly literally FLIRTING. Straight flirting yesterday (Saturday). He's not responding at all today after I questioned him and feel like this isn't a good sign.
