"I know we have been quiet these last few weeks-but you have been on my mind."
-> the problem with such sentences is that you can understand them the way you prefer.
She told you about a guy she liked there, it could have been a test, a way to make you lose your hopes, or it could have been her talking to a friend about what was going on in her life.
She didn't see you for thanksgivings, when you both had planned to meet up.
She told you there would be no long distance thing between you, but she still kissed you.
In my opinion, there are several options.
She wanted you as a friend, so hooking you a bit could be a way. You would be an enjoyable memory of her former place, when she moved to a stranger place (some girls are like that).
Or she was not really responsible, and now she's trying to let you down without hurting you.
Or she doesn't know what she wants.
She sent a card (not a letter), and it also means she didn't want you on the phone, probably to avoid the relationship talk. If she had really wanted to see you, she would asked you somehow to see each other.
Maybe she's expecting you to say something like "do you want to meet during the holidays", but then, the same scenario could start again.
It's about time for you to chose your poison. Not answering at all, and moving on, or phoning her, and telling her what's on your heart, with the risk that you'll feel dumb for phoning afterwards.
Good luck, it's not a comfortable position you're in.
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@Update : Really sorry to read this.
Either she went to holidays and you'll see in a few days, or she just decided to move on.
But it's bothering you, so you should put yourself into the "moving on" position.
You have just walk your way to her heart but I will advice you reply with a card with short note of your thought for her. Just be simple and brief, please don't give her too much words, it might turn her off. Don't worry she is interested but her problem is the distance, you have to arrange and fix a nice way of communication, if you will do it thrice a week on phone and some letters, cards and texting it wouldn't be bad, just make sure you give her the room to trust you and I hope you are OK with the distance? If you are, you need to help her get better with it as you have, and you will be surprise how things will naturally work it self.
Good Luck.
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