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My family and I are debating whether to give my 92 year-old great-grandma the bad news about her son's (grandpa) passing. She only knew his condition wasn't good when she sometimes visited him at the hospital but we lied to her that he's going to improve. The truth is he wasn't going to ever get better.

She has no dementia and has been asking about him a few times this past week. We haven't told her that he's dead. The news will greatly devastate her and there is a chance she might not be able to handle it. She had issues getting pregnant for years, had him in her mid 30's and he was her only child.

If you were her, in your early 90's and still with good memory, would you want to know about your child's passing? Should we tell her? If so is there a more calmer way to bring her the news?

My friend can't ever forgive her parents ever getting disowned for getting pregnant at 18. She's now 32, in a stable marriage, they both own a business and her two kids are both ages 14 and 9.

Her parents all of the sudden are all remorseful and want her back. However, this was her reply back to them ''My biological parents died long ago. Goodbye''. She then proceeded to blocking them.

She can't ever forgive that they didn't give a rats about her life (her 2nd pregnancy nearly cost her life; it got complicated), health, her first child's birth, her wedding, her b-days, etc. She also suspects they're just contacting her only after finding out she's having a good life and wouldn't be reaching out if she was poor and struggling? Her then boyfriend (now husband) took full responsibility and she received support from his parents. They were like a real parents to her. She also imagines that even if she forgives them and were to have them back in her life, she would never forget what they're capable of and that their love was never unconditional, that they would leave her during bad times again.

Would you forgive and give a 2nd chance if you got disowned or not? Personally, I agree with my friend. I would never be able to forgive that.