Why are you with this woman? She doesn’t respect your boundaries, has a clearly inappropriate relationship with her “friend”, has no maternal instincts towards the unborn baby (is it even yours?), is a drunk, won’t let you have your own friends over, accuses you of racism, and I’m sure a host of other things you haven’t even mentioned.
I get that you love her, but you can love someone and still have the sense to know they’re not good for you. And that’s all there really is for me, a stranger, to say. She’s not good for you. Her friend is not the problem, she is the problem.
You can stay in the relationship and continue to be under stress, or you can break up and finally have peace.
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Holy. Crap. You need to have a paternity test performed and you need to get out of whatever that toxic mess is. Child is probably likely to have Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. She sounds like a psychopath.
You are being a simpin cuck. Dump her and stop being a dumbass
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Settling into the cozy nook of love and relationships, I'd like to dance around the delicate topic you've brought to the floor. Love, you've got yourself a steamy telenovela, haven't you? But let's dim the drama lights and focus the spotlight on solutions.
First off, communication is the tango of any relationship, but it feels like you're dancing solo here. You've expressed concerns, love, but they're being twirled away. This situation, with all its twists—your lady's friendship, the cheeky ass-smacking (big red flag waving in the love parade!), and the alarming health risks during pregnancy—needs more than a light cha-cha of conversation.
It's time for a serious duet, my friend. Approach this not as a confrontation but as a heartfelt plea for the health and safety of your unborn child and the future of your relationship. Use "I feel" statements to express your concerns without igniting defensive fireworks.
If your love solo becomes a duet of deaf ears, perhaps it's time to invite a professional relationship choreographer—yes, a counselor—to help you both find your rhythm again. This might feel like a tango through a minefield, but for love and family, it's worth every careful step.
Stubborn cases may require you to evaluate your boundaries and what you can tolerate in the name of love. Remember, in the grand love symphony, everyone's well-being, especially that of your future little one, should be the harmonious chorus.
Keep the communication lines open, consider professional guidance, and remember, love, sometimes the hardest decisions lead to the most beautiful destinations.
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Dump her. Not worth the drama.
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