So my fiancé and I have an interesting main friend group. There’s two boys from his class and their girlfriends. We’re all in heterosexual relationships. But this one guy is too gay with my man.
This particular friend likes to separate my fiancé and I. He can get really annoying sometimes. He’s that one person that just plays TikToks on full volume during a movie. Just stays past his welcome in general. He can’t take the rather obvious hint that it annoys me. We’re all in our last year of highschool so I still live with my mother and it just makes the house cramped.
He makes these stereotypical gay jokes toward my man. You know like that cringe “haha funny I act gay but I’m straight” trash? But this guy just takes it so far and doesn’t do it to his other friends really. He will grope my boyfriend and spoon him as a “joke”. Just every second thing he says to my man is a gay “joke”. It makes me, his girlfriend, and my man so uncomfortable.
He acts so gay towards him that the counsellor at their school had a meeting with them about their “homosexual relationships” (Catholic school) even though that teacher knows about me dating him.
My fiancé is such a nice guy. He won’t say “no” or “stop” to anyone. He sort of switches off when this guy does those “jokes” and sometimes will push back a bit. It’s so awkward and obvious that no one likes what’s going on but this guy won’t stop. He has a lot of nice traits too so I think that’s why he’s still my man’s closest friend.
The reason why I’m suddenly bringing this up is because my man is currently at his house for the night. For some context, I’m pregnant and not doing the best physically or mentally. We really need to be together at the moment. This friend knows all these detail because I’ve talked about it before and he’s always hanging around my house. Regardless, he took him away to most likely do drugs (my fiancé is a recovering addict) and my man is just going all with all of it. I want to scream.
This particular friend likes to separate my fiancé and I. He can get really annoying sometimes. He’s that one person that just plays TikToks on full volume during a movie. Just stays past his welcome in general. He can’t take the rather obvious hint that it annoys me. We’re all in our last year of highschool so I still live with my mother and it just makes the house cramped.
He makes these stereotypical gay jokes toward my man. You know like that cringe “haha funny I act gay but I’m straight” trash? But this guy just takes it so far and doesn’t do it to his other friends really. He will grope my boyfriend and spoon him as a “joke”. Just every second thing he says to my man is a gay “joke”. It makes me, his girlfriend, and my man so uncomfortable.
He acts so gay towards him that the counsellor at their school had a meeting with them about their “homosexual relationships” (Catholic school) even though that teacher knows about me dating him.
My fiancé is such a nice guy. He won’t say “no” or “stop” to anyone. He sort of switches off when this guy does those “jokes” and sometimes will push back a bit. It’s so awkward and obvious that no one likes what’s going on but this guy won’t stop. He has a lot of nice traits too so I think that’s why he’s still my man’s closest friend.
The reason why I’m suddenly bringing this up is because my man is currently at his house for the night. For some context, I’m pregnant and not doing the best physically or mentally. We really need to be together at the moment. This friend knows all these detail because I’ve talked about it before and he’s always hanging around my house. Regardless, he took him away to most likely do drugs (my fiancé is a recovering addict) and my man is just going all with all of it. I want to scream.
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I just feel like my man is being taken advantage of. I’m worried about him. I’m worried that him “being too nice” will destroy the stability of our relationship. My fiancé is super straight as well and borderline homophobic. I think he’s just too nice and naive to realise that he might be getting groomed in some way. I’ve had girls do similar shit to me and mess with my straight relationships.
I have the worst feeling. I’ve never felt this way about any other guy who’s friends with one of bfs.
I have the worst feeling. I’ve never felt this way about any other guy who’s friends with one of bfs.
