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We have been friends for fifteen years. I received a letter from her saying hey let's have a girls night and hang out call me ! I called her three times because I am going away on a work trip she seems irritated when I answer. Her husband seems happy I called. She asks who I am and why I am calling her and that she's so so busy. Then she said Hope's I am ok and happy and she so enjoys our friendship. I rolled my eyes after that. I don't think she wrote that card after looking at it. I think her husband wrote it. I looks like his handwriting. I sent her a card and said sorry I bother her. If she doesn't want to hang it's cool just tell me you have moved on. I told I do the best I can. Maybe I am projecting I am really depressed about my life in general. Her husband said something to me at their winter wonderland bash she gave me a beautiful gift but was too busy to talk to me. Which bugged me. He said he is sorry I am a good friend and she doesn't deserve my friendship. She made out with me when she was completely wasted last year when they were separated. I was stunned and it was weird.

Background: I’ve been spending time with a new guy for a little over a month now, getting to know each other. When he picked me up for a date, I noticed a custom trinket that he has hanging from his rear view mirror. I looked at it closely and it had a “drive safe” message engraved with a girl’s name and a heart on it. I asked him about it and he said it was from his ex.

I was taken aback because I don’t personally keep gifts from exes, especially something that seems sentimental. He told me a bit about her and that things didn’t necessarily end on a bad note, they just ended up wanting different things but they’re cool with each other. Jokingly I told him that he probably still has feelings for her, then he told me if that were the case, we wouldn’t be seeing each other.

I only ever really hear about issues with women keeping jewelry from exes but out of curiosity for the men, is keeping something like this, a custom gift that you probably look at regularly, a big deal? Or this probably means nothing?