What is your opinion on dating a sex worker?

[Anonymous]

First and foremost, there is obviously a large spectrum of what constitutes sex work- ranging from OnlyFans creators to dancers to pornstars to escorting and prostitution. I am a male so I am talking about female sex workers, although male sex workers also exist obviously.

I think there is an unfair stigma against sex workers, many of the ones I have met are some of the most genuine and kind hearted people I know. I think I am more open to it since I have done business with a lot of sex workers in places like Amsterdam, etc. and it is just sex. From the woman's point of view, it seems like a job just like any other. There are times I'm sure the job is enjoyable and times it is not. It is no different to me compared to another job except the girl can make a lot of money and have some pretty enjoyable experiences that are not available to a McDonald's worker for example.

I have seen many escorts in my life but recently I saw a high end escort a few times and things turned romantic after about two weeks of going on dates. Of course at first I was paying her rate but when things took a turn towards a budding romance, she asked me to stop paying and instead just treat her like a girlfriend. Needless to say, she is an expert at sex so that part of the relationship is amazing but she is also a lot of fun to be around and we really enjoy our time and dates together.

I am a masters student so I am not rich by any means but I have money so I am gladly willing to pay for dates as I would for any other girlfriend but I am not trying to "rescue her" from her life nor does she want to be "rescued". So in order to support her lifestyle she still works and is very open about her clients and her choices. I think it is cool she gets to go to nice restaurants, extravagant vacations, and get gifted things. I should mention this is not in the US, we are in a country where sex work is legal and regulated with weekly STD tests.

Anyway, what are your opinions on dating a sex worker?

[SueShe]

The definition of a sex worker is

"a person who provides sex work, either on a regular or occasional basis. The term is used in reference to those who work in all areas of the sex industry". The sex industry on the other side is defined as

" businesses that either directly or indirectly provide sex-related products and services or adult entertainment".

I personally understand those definitions as anyone that make a cent/penny on selling his/her body for profit. In other terms, a person that does this camera nudes is by definition a sex worker or more commonly called a prostitute.

I would of course never date a person that does make a profit from selling her body just because I disapprove of that kind of trade.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

You can do what you want, it’s not my life or my place to tell you that you should or should not date a sex worker. It isn’t my business what you decide to choose to date, and it isn’t my business what you guys do either.


I personally would not and could not date a sex worker, of any kind. I just don’t think I would get past that, for me personally. Whether it be onlyfans or a male stripper, etc, I just don’t think I would be comfortable having a partner like that.

[tzdc21]

Not the smartest choice. I personally would be embarrassed to take a sex worker seriously for a long term relationship. This is the woman I am gonna take care of, love, marry and represent me. And most importantly, this is the woman who is gonna be the mother of my child. I refuse for that woman to be a sex worker. I absolutely refuse it.

[Twalli]

If she's not having sex with a guy on camera or sex with other guys, I don't mind. So if it's all solo work or work with other girls, I don't mind.

[jshm2]

It's basically sexual slavery.

Also, "Onlyfans" isn't legally classified as "sex work", any more than softcore sex scenes on movies qualify actresses as being "sex workers".

The rest of your ramble isn't really worth time dissecting. You're wrong and lopsided in your views.

[jennifer_bloom]

I don’t talk to sex workers.

[kinggeorge007]

I wouldn't do that, but someone else might like it

[Iron_Man]

Absolutely worthless and meaningless plus they are dirty ass hell

[StrawberryShake]

Uhm...

[Iron_Man]

@StrawberryShake you know prostitution is not the way for a young female to live her life

[StrawberryShake]

So call her worthless and meaningless?

[Iron_Man]

@StrawberryShake no that’s for a girl that has sex for money. You’re supposed to be a funeral Director and before that you wanted to be a stewardess

[Asker]

I'd have to argue the typical college sorority slut is a lot dirtier lol. Only ever gotten an STD from one of them, never from am escort who takes care of herself and tests weekly

[StrawberryShake]

What the heck does me wanting to be a funeral director have to do with this? I never said I wanted to be a sex worker, but you're acting like they're complete trash and that's just not okay.

[Fhhhggggghhhhh]

@StrawberryShake I've never seen anyone else standing up for prostitutes (except for people on this site). You obviously watch too many movies that glamorize prostitution
Of course they're trash.. They had a choice, and instead of getting an education they chose this way..

[StrawberryShake]

@Fhhhggggghhhhh girl get your head out of your damn ass. I'm standing up for a human being not a prostitute.

[Fhhhggggghhhhh]

@StrawberryShake a human being that sells her body for money
Congrats 👏 I suppose we are going to stand up for dealers too? They're also human beings

[StrawberryShake]

@Fhhhggggghhhhh so someone sells their OWN body for sex bc they're struggling, which literally doesn't affect you whatsoever (unless you're fucking them, or are you?) and you think they're worthless and not worthy of anything? Yeah fuck you sicko

[Fhhhggggghhhhh]

@StrawberryShake unless they are victims of trafficking and have no way out of it, there are other jobs they can do, if they're starving
You're the one, who's sick, you have no morals or manners

[StrawberryShake]

@Fhhhggggghhhhh sounds like you have no morals or manner, not me dumbass. You're calling people worthless for doing sex work... creep.

[Fhhhggggghhhhh]

@StrawberryShake pointing out facts, doesn't make me a creep

[Fhhhggggghhhhh]

@StrawberryShake @StrawberryShake aren't you the girl, whose family made a birthday cake saying to "my little slut" for her 18th birthday last year on your own account? Not surprised at all

[StrawberryShake]

@Fhhhggggghhhhh no hun, calling humans worthless when they're literally not hurting anyone but maybe themselves? Get help.

[Fhhhggggghhhhh]

@StrawberryShake
I have a great memory.
Everyone's entitled to their own opinion, you're in a public forum..
If you don't like it, maybe you should get off the Internet and do something meaningful with your life

[billmunch]

I've done it and am completely okay with it.

[DevinAM]

I don't think it would work for me.

[In_Trance]

It's not for everyone

[Sabretooth]

out of the question.