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Search Results: crush on older guy
What makes a guy want to hold a girl's hand?
I used to hold hands or walk arm-in-arm with guy friends all the time. Something about the dynamic changed midway through college when the guys all started looking for our serious dating companions and I kept to my...
How do I move on from loving a man who still won’t love me back?
Okay so I met this guy when I was 11 years old and he was 23. He works for my dad and it started as a little school girl crush. I think he was aware as everytime id see him id go all red in the face and act shy but...
Anonymous
(25-29) I have a boyfriend but like another guy at school—what should I do?
For starters, I have known my boyfriend since early February and we connected through mutual friends. He goes to a different highschool than me but loves close so we manage to hangout every weekend and it gives us the...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is my affectionate male friend straight or secretly crushing on my bi best friend?
My male best friend is bisexual, and we have a mutual male friend from the improv community. This guy has more female friends than male friends. He talks to women naturally, but with men he seems unable to start a...
Anonymous
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ThaCuriousGuy007
Xper 4 Age: 31 Should I confess my crush to an older senior before he graduates?
I have this crush on a guy at my school (that’s how it always goes, right?). I’ve been thinking about telling him that I like him, and in a casual, non stressful way. It’s in terms that I’m okay if he rejects me or...
TimidKoi
Xper 1 Age: 17 Why is my crush oversharing embarrassing stories with me?
We've been talking for a couple days now and he's told me that 'i make him remember stories' and he sent me an old picture of himself after he fell off his scooter and hurt himself, yesterday he told me 4 extremely...
wadnerus
Xper 1 Age: 22 Is an 8-year age gap (22 and 30) too much for dating?
Hi guys, I'm 22 and recently got a crush on a guy who's 30. I didn't know about his age because he is so athletic and looks younger. Meanwhile we came across in a friends group and never had the opportunity to chat alone...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is it creepy to text an old coworker to ask him out a year later?
There was a guy I worked with about a year ago, he was only there for a couple months. I had a big crush on him, which is really rare for me. We worked in different departments so we didn’t talk a whole lot but he’d...
dnbeuajen
Xper 2 Age: 21 Need brutal honesty on this gym crush situation because my brain is spiraling?
A few years ago I matched this guy on Bumble, but I killed it by constantly talking about how his friend rejected me (awkward af). We unmatched and never spoke again. Now, whenever I go to the gym he usually trains at...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why am I worried about my wife's past all of a sudden?
We are on our Valentines date and we started discussing how I wish we would have met when we were younger. Then she mentioned a crush she had in high school on this guy that was a year older. She was somewhat close to...
IHaveRespawned
Xper 6 Age: 30 Why do some people keep asking when am I going to get a man or start dating again?
Okay so I just turned 36 almost three months ago and I haven’t dated since I was like 21/22 years old back in 2011. The only relationship I’ve had was with a guy that I went to school with. We’ve known each other since we...
MizzArtFreak89
Xper 5 Age: 36 How to react to a professor treating me unfairly?
my professor may be reacting retaliatory summary: last semester he held prolonged eye contact with me and told me he liked to make me laugh that same class he looked down my top and immediately looked away. two weeks...
tyrannyhead2345
Xper 3 Age: 26 
Anonymous
(30-35) Why would most men refuse to date a woman that’s 6ft?
I mean I’m 6ft and dating is shit for me. Guys reject me, shun me and leave before dates start. I’ve always been a bigger girl and. I guy has looked my way especially the guys I had a crush humiliated me. They always...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is that the good looking guys I wanted either were jerks or always went for stunning girls? Why do I always attract guys I don’t want?
I struggled with weight all my life. I’m 6ft, currently 219lbs. I was fine when I was younger until I got chubbier at 8 years old. Middle school I was chubby and then I got really fat in high school. Never had a boyfriend...
Anonymous
(25-29) (27F) I feel like I can’t physically get close or intimate with a guy ever again because it’s always one sided?
I 27 F have been single for 3 years almost. I briefly dated a guy in summer of 2025 but it wasn’t that serious we mostly went on a few dates then realized we weren’t on the same page. I’ve never been the same since my ex...
Anonymous
(25-29) What does his behavior mean?
I've developed a crush on this guy that works at this bank I go to. I've seen him a total of 5 times. The first 3 times he has helped me and the last 2 visits someone else was helping me when I seen him. On my 3rd visit...
Anonymous
(30-35) This guy im interested in is twice my age and is sending mixed signals, how do I know if he likes me?
Ok a little back story, I am 24F and I work at a family owned store with my grandparent and mother. The guy I am curious about is a frequent customer and family friend. He is in his 50's, and we will call him Paul . Now...
Anonymous
(18-24) Crush on an older guy — are these signs he might like me back?
I have a crush on an older guy in one of my classes, and I’m trying to figure out if he might like me back. He’s a little shy and awkward, but some of his behavior has been making me wonder. Whenever we talk, we have...
forestfairystix
Xper 1 Age: 24 