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Hello,

So I recently just turned 24. I've noticed a lot of people still classify me as young looking and look I just got out of high school. Reality is that I actually just recently got out of the military after doing 4 years. I have 0 dating experience. I'm looking online and I noticed I actually find some 18 and 19 year olds attractive and in person as well. I actually had a younger girl (below 20) hit on me a while back. Is it fine for me to date 18 and 19 year olds or no? I don't have a problem with it but that's just me. How old is too old to date an 18 or 19 year old?

I'm working on myself and my health first before entering the dating world again as I'm currently unprepared.

I saw a show where a man in his 60s was in an arranged marriage with a young woman. After they tried for a child, he said "Go fetch me some pickled herrings".

I really, really hope a guy wrote this for satire, and a woman didn't have an actual husband send his wife on some "fetch" mission for food instead of getting it, himself.

Ladies tell me, has a man you were dating ever unironically talked to you like that?

"Fetch some herrings"? That is not acceptable for a 5 year old boy to talk like that to his mom, let alone some old dude to his "wife".

Please tell me men are not acting like this with girls they're dating. I'd expect to get smacked if I ever did that cause that's just unbelievable that a man can't be bothered to get his own plate and makes his spouse do it for him. Have you seen this in your personal lives, ladies?

Has a man you dated ever talked to you with such childish, disrespectful entitlement?

I happen to take this matter personally because of what happened to me.

When I was 20, I met this 16 year old girl online on an adult dating app. We really hit it off, and we began conversing for a series of months. We both researched the age of consent in her state, and found that it was 16. I drove to meet her, and we had a date. Things got intense later, and we ended up having sex. It ended up only being a weekend fling because she didn't want to pursue a romantic relationship with me. I was heartbroken. We had a dispute weeks later, and she never wanted to speak to me again.

7 months later while at my college dorm, I made an idiotic decision to drive back to her state to apologize and win her heart again. I was met at the door by her father, who was unhappy to see me to say the least. I shook his hand and agreed to cut complete contact. As I went back to my hotel, the police knocked on my door and arrested me. Fast forwarding, I was sentenced to 3 years supervised probation. The collateral damages were just as bad if not worse, as I lost my EMT license and my career.

The reason why I bring this up is because if this were to happen to someone who was elite, had money, or had high influential status, they would have likely just received a slap on the wrist or not have been touched at all by the law.

Instead, an average everyday person, let alone a young 20/21 year old trying to pursue love at that time, had his entire reputation and livelihood destroyed.

These elitist bastards flew 14 year old girls on an island, passed them around as casual sex dolls, and they get away with it completely unscathed. It's sick.

Now that I am 31 and married, I look back in hindsight with regret and sadness I became so desperate. I was young and dumb. But I am even more angry at the devastation it caused for so many years when, meanwhile, elitists just continue to thrive and get away with high-profile crimes.