Do you believe that everyone created has a purpose to fulfill in life? is there a significant reason for their existence?

[Dbman99]

I didn’t have a very good positive, father figure in my life. absent and more emotionally abusive. Ever since kindergarten all through high school I got bullied and picked on. I struggle in the workplace a lot. The reason I ask, again I’ve asked a question about dating, being an autistic 48-year-old male, who never dated, but I’ve tried so many avenues. recently a girl, as I started to like her she ended up calling me, creepy and predatory and threatened to have protection because I wasn’t understanding cues. Now I just had a very good positive therapy session and I’ve been in therapy my whole life. It’s sometimes hard to land on a good therapist. But this one trying to understand me with dating and why this girl is so upset, is that I have developed Limerence over my life. Which is a very obsessive way of kind of making a person you have a crush on your special interest. And I believe I’ve done this My whole life, perhaps trying to find someone to fill that void that I’ve never experienced. Which is love. I honestly can’t remember ever really experiencing love even as a little boy. I was never encouraged everything I wanted to do was dumb and stupid growing up. But I found a role in the theater community. Where I enjoy being someone else and I’ve actually won award. So perhaps that’s a good thing. Anyway, if you don’t know, Limerence, you can look it up to see an involuntary, obsessive state of intense infatuation with someone, characterized by intrusive thoughts, idealization, and a consuming desire for reciprocation, often causing emotional highs and lows. I guess my question is if I’m not meant to be loved or find love or joy in my life Why am I here when I’ve been told as a Christian everyone’s here for specific purpose and that God will give you the desires of your heart. Also, I believe God said it’s not good for man to be alone. I just don’t understand. I don’t wanna be alone forever. I wanna know what this purpose is

[Dargil]

I believe that The Creator can grant you a full life. And yet only have you here for one single purpose. Before that purpose, you just glide along. After that purpose, you glide along some more. People like Mother Teresa and Albert Schweitzer seem to be called for more.

[slatyb]

No, I don't. Purpose implies some intention by a conscious entity. There is no such entity as far as we can tell, so we don't have a purpose other than the one we create for ourselves.

[Nikki1989]

Some people feel they were born with a mission. Others discover meaning in different ways. Purpose doesn’t have to be huge—it just has to feel true to you.

[Dbman99]

It’s just so hard when I’m trying to love and I just feel so unwanted and alone. And what she said about me cut deep. I know she’s guarded from past relationships, but I did so much for her and I guess kindness mean nothing if someone just tosses me out like trash.

[strateguy632]

Obviously yes, created for a purpose. 2 yes too but you need to search inside yourself to find your purpose. Not what i or any guru tells you!