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Germanic women

They stand out with their tall stature, blonde hair, and angular facial features. They are often just as active as men in the workforce—you may encounter women working as mechanics or crane operators. However, don't expect too much romance.

Slavic women

Ideal for those who prefer a more traditionally feminine style. They often expect men to fulfill traditional gender roles. For many Slavic women, looking attractive is very important—they may spend a long time getting ready even for a quick trip to the grocery store.

Latina women

Their darker complexion and warm, outgoing personalities are their defining traits. They are often energetic and lively, with strong sex appeal, though they can also be quite talkative.

I was always told this growing up. I used to believe women understand men better then vice versa. But not anymore.

I believe women understood men better in earlier times out of necessity. They used to depend more on men to provide and protect them. It was important for them to understand men they wanted to get in a relationship with vs. those to avoid.

But in modern times women seem far less concerned about understanding men. Not that I expect them to naturally understand that. But one thing they seem to struggle with is understanding the difference between likeability / attraction vs. respect. Men actually crave respect more then they crave sex, intimacy, etc.

It’s possible to still respect someone even think you don’t like them. It’s about understanding their situation and what they have to deal with. And truly men generally understand this concept far better then women do.

One example is when I broke up with my ex girlfriend. At that point I was no longer attracted her at all. Can’t say I liked her much either. But I still respected her. I knew about her struggles and dreams. That’s why I gave her the respect of sitting down and breaking up face to face. Endured 2 hours of hell (screaming, crying, etc.).

But I don’t regret it. I didn’t fixate on her flaws and chastise her over grudges and things I didn’t like about her to self justify my decision (I’ve had women do that to me when I was dumped). I had enough respect for her that would just add insult to injury.

If you have been dating long enough that your relationship already includes sex, are you expecting that a date on Valentine's Day will eventually lead to a romp in the bedroom and spending the night (if you don't already live together?) Is it unreasonable to have such an expectation?