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Search Results: hate trying to date
Girls, what are your biggest red flags on a first date?
What are red flags that immediately rule out a next date for you? One I have is a guy being rude to the waiter/waitress or someone working the register. Like they’re just trying to do their job and make a living and I...
bobafiend27
Xper 1 Age: 24 Advice for Guys: Avoid Unclean Women
Let me tell you a story about a girl I used to know, who actually turns out to be a few years older than me but who lied about her age because she looked very young, even younger than myself, and a lot of people often...
Why is there so much backlash and hate toward flat-chested women?
I’ve struggled with BDD (body dysmorphia) since I was 15 because I didn’t develop like other girls, especially in the chest area. My face is pretty average too, so I never felt like I had anything to “make up” for it....
Anonymous
(18-24) What makes a man totally avoid a girl he rejected after a date? What causes a man to hate or be so indifferent towards a woman?
He ghosted her… gave closure weeks later and then said we can check in here and there… she reaches out and he ignores her… she’s hurt by him still she tries to embarrass him online… he still ignores her…. She tells him...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I still be friends with him? Advice?
No one ever talks about how hard it is for you to stay friends with someone you basically dated. My guy friend and I were basically dating (only he was too insecure to actually commit). He had an identity crisis which I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is this a toxic way to get back at my ex?
Me and ex have been on and off for 3 years. Safe to say he let me down massively and I was stupid enough to let him back in time after time. He never respected me and just wanted me for sex but then when we'd break up he...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do some women do this one annoying thing?
I get that not all women are like this, but so far all the ones I've come across lately have. I've asked a few girls out on dates lately. If you are not interested, all you have to do is say "No" or "Sorry, I'm not...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, Why do women enjoy destroying men they perceive as unworthy of them?
I've never been on a date ever not because I don't try it's because every time I try I get stood up , catfished, they give an excuse and never talk to me again. I don't do anything wrong. I just get used and lied to...
Anonymous
(36-45) Women: what helps someone unlearn negative beliefs caused by past experiences?”?
I’m not really sure how to word this perfectly, so sorry if it comes out a little messy, but I’ve been trying to understand something about myself. For a long time I honestly thought I was a misogynist. Not because I...
Brandon_1998_Wright
Xper 1 Age: 28 Validation for modeling?
My aspirations even at age 39 are to become a male model. I've been called handsome my entire adulthood from various women of all races and age groups. Mostly during dates or communication that I initiated. Been rated 8s,...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why don't women around my age seem to like me?
I've seen this question hashed out before but wanted my personal touch to it. Ok I'm almost 32. Divorced and haven't dated since 2017. Now I'm back in the dating scene and I've had a couple of dates here and there. Now...
Coloradodude32
Xper 1 Age: 32 What to do about him talking regularly but not making plans?
I (35, F) been out with a guy (42, M) I met on a dating app 4 times now in the past 3 weeks. He really pursued me after the first two dates and then kind of backed off. On our third date he told me that while he told me...
Anonymous
(36-45) Would I still be considered "childfree" if my brother and his wife die and I have to step in to raise their daughter so she would not be an orphan?
I am definitely "childfree" now because I do not have any children and I never want to have any children (for the record, I am a totally single man who is almost 50-years-old)... But I recently found out that my younger...
deaddude7734
Xper 1 Age: 50 Do I Fight for Our Friendship or Let Go?(guy best friend /girl best friend just graduated high school)?
I’ve had my guy best friend friend, Trevor, for about three years. We shared deep conversations and personal struggles. Since I didn’t have a phone and couldn’t go out much because of my overprotective mom, our friendship...
mollysos
Xper 3 Age: 18 Why are guys like this?
I went out with a dude the other day for the first time. Before I continue I will remind y'all that this is first time I’ve went out with this man. Anywho he kept trying to hold me from behind with his arms around me...
throwmeaway1111
Xper 4 Age: 26 Girls, Are relationships a waste of time at 40?
A lot of people at that age have been in relationships and possibly marriage (s). They've been burned a lot of times and don't feel any reason to try again. I've never been married because all the marriages I've Seen are...
Anonymous
(36-45) How do you move on after planning your future with someone who changed?
I'm really heartbroken to have to write about something like this but my boyfriend is withdrawn from our relationship 2 months after I gave birth to our first child. He had been going out a lot or hanging with friends or...
Anonymous
(25-29) Which picture is profile worthy?
I'm in need of a new profile pic for my socials as my current one is so out dated. I hate taking pictures of myself and I'm so awkward. I don't like smiling as I have small lips and British teeth 🤣. I have edited some of...
Puppystarfish23
Yoda Age: 28 Guy friend doesn't see me as a potential girlfriend, doesn't make plans to see me but treats me as a therapist etc. What should I do?
So I have a guy friend who lives in a different city than me. He has some trouble with his everyday life, we're both 21, I'm studying medicine and he has no idea what to do with his life - he changed his major but still...
baddiska
Xper 4 Age: 22 Why do I keep meeting men who try to make me feel inferior?
I don't know how I keep meeting men who want to make me feel inferior. This when I was at school and this guy from a different class 'liked' me so much that he'd follow me home and make rounds of my house all day...
Anonymous
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