Search Results: he said he loves me but now hes distant

Why is he distant now after a long time of chasing?

There is this guy I met in march and we clicked really quick. He used to be so communicative, so romantic, so funny and so caring. We have been talking since then and I was struggling with some problems back then, he has...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why do I pull away when I actually like a girl, even though I want to connect with her? How can I stop this pattern?

This keeps happening to me, it is a pattern. I don’t play games or flirt, I’ve never needed to. The girls I’ve been with in the past usually made the first move, and things just flowed naturally. But when I really like...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I the problem?

My boyfriend and I are long-distance, and he's made it clear he doesn't like long distance, and his past long distance didn't work out, but for me, he's trying. Today is our 2-month anniversary, and I've missed him all...

ruth4ever

Xper 1 Age: 20

What do you think is going on with her?

So I’m in a situationship with a woman who’s my age. And we’ve met online. And at first she didn’t really respond because she thought I wasn’t real, but she started loving me when she found out I was. She even bought me a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Am I stupid to think she likes me?

So, I like this girl I met in a Discord server where I’m a mod. I usually welcome new members and try to make them feel comfortable, and that’s how she and I started talking. We got close pretty quickly—it began with some...

lover01__

Xper 2 Age: 25

I dont know what's up with him?

I met a guy on a dating app, and after a month of talking, he came to see me one night after work. We hooked up, but during the movie he seemed distant, and after sex I drunkenly told him I loved him. He said, “I’m not...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why do women become Emotionally unavailable?

When a girl pushes you away someone that you really cared about and connected with. You feel like your words are not reaching her and nothing I say or do will bring her back, she's already checked out... The girl I use to...

LadiesFavoriteToy

Xper 7 Age: 23

Advice on love?

(Using falses names but actual situation) A year ago I was dating this guy (Jason), and we had an amazing relationship. Although unfortunately our relationship took a turn during the summer. It went quiet and I’d put my...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Relationships

She tells me she doesn't love me but still has feelings for me?

Been dating someone now which was for a long while long distance but we would always call every night and chat throughout the day, She's now moved down south a lot closer to where I am but she's been understandably...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I don't even know if I love her or am I really grieving now or just used to her in my life?

We had been together for 3 years. The first 2 years were great, but during the third year, I became distant. My mental state was in a bad place. Most of the time, when she called me at night and was sweet and...

blazerock44

Xper 7 Age: 27

Why did she led me on? I believe she wanted to be friends but maybe after seeing me cry she felt guilty?

Met a girl through a dating app. After 2 weeks of chatting and a few video calls, we met in person. 1st date: She brought me a home-baked cookie. 2nd date: She said, “I’ve friendzoned a lot of guys.” 3rd date: Went...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, do you come back after doing the work?

Hello! I’m looking specifically for opinions form guys here. So here is the deal, my ex was a literal minegold. Our relationship was great, we didn’t always communicate when needed but always caught up. Everything was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Men, Can I get some advice?

This guy I've been seeing has been distant, I did end up messaging and told him if he's not interested he can let me know so I'm not wasting my time. He told me he is still interested, he's just been going through things...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would an ex keep reaching out?

I’d like your honest opinion. There’s a man, let’s call him C. We’ve known each other for almost 20 years. I was 13, he was 17 when we met. It felt like we knew each other forever. Friends for 8 years, then a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend passed away, I don’t think I’ll be happy with anyone else?

My boyfriend and I were together a year and a half. We’ve had ups and downs, near the end of our time together we had some rough times and he needed to work on some things. He had bipolar and when things were rocky I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

What do you do when the one who you rejected becomes the one avoiding you?

We had a history, where I was in love with her and she rejected me and she left me. Few years later she came back and I acted like I didn't know her. It messed with her already poor mental helath which in turn made the...

bulleye

Xper 4 Age: 29

Relationships

How can someone love you but won't commit?

So since July I have been in and out of a guess relationship. Sold me the moon and stars. Everything was great. He started showing other woman a little bit more attention and I called him out on it. Then we split up. This...

Lilbit84

Xper 3 Age: 42

What does this message mean "I love you even if you don't love me back"?

I woke up to a text notification from my ex-girlfriend. My heart skipped a beat when I saw it. We hadn’t spoken in almost four months; not since that messy breakup where we both said things we regretted. At first she had...

Anonymous

(36-45)