Search Results: he stares at me and then ignores me

1 mo

Is this older man on my bus just lonely or being a creepy predator toward me?

I take the bus to work and back home. This older man kept staring at me, and then he asked what time the bus was coming. A few days later, on the bus, he started singing in Spanish. Then he started waving at me, saying,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

2 mo

Why did this guy from my university club go from staring and joking with me to suddenly ignoring me?

He used to stare a lot at me either from a distance or sometimes I caught him staring at me during our club events together. He used to make jokes with me, say my name a lot too, & used to be around me a lot too. He goes...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Education & Career

Let go from job because "I'm making women uncomfortable"?

Up until last week, I was working serving tables. I've worked as a server a long time, nothing new. On my first day at this restaurant, I went up to everyone in the front and back of house and said "hi", wassup,...

Dobby_Freeman

Xper 1 Age: 30

Flirting

How should I deal with a co-worker who likes me a lot but she has a boyfriend?

Since a few weeks a female co-worker who is 14 years younger has been flirting with me. She tries to be in my presence a lot, keeps on staring at me for a long time, smiles at me, touches me by accident, listens to me...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guy's Behavior

Is he telling all his friends that I like him or that he likes me?

So theirs this this guy I have a crush on and now all his close friends he hangs out w every time their near me in school like not even with him they all always look at me, so im betting he's talking about but is it that...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Dating

Is it just time to move on now?

I noticed she barely looks my way anymore and yes I never approached her because I just didn’t. But first I was scared to but then I just thought after she already thinks I’m not confident so what’s the point. I don’t get...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Girl ignores me completely, but she looks at me (when she thinks I don't notice) and takes a seat right across me, why?

So this girl does her best to ignore me. Last time I crossed her and one of her close colleagues. Her colleague smiled and me while I passed, she however completely ignored me. This was shortly after we sat in a meeting,...

Fulti

Xper 1 Age: 36

Guy's Behavior

Is staring at a woman something a man can control?

I was just wondering cause no matter how long this guy looked at me and I caught him staring at and checking me out, he still continued to do so. I initially ignored it at first and just turned around while waiting for my...

CxnfusedPhia

Xper 1 Age: 20

Guy's Behavior

My exboyfriend showed up right where I live and trying several attemps to keep me emotionally invested? What does he want?

I have been going back and fort deciding what to do with the things he gave me to keep when we broke things off and the jacket I gave him for Christmas, do I just send it to him in the mail, do I deliver in front of his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Can someone explain my situation?

I met a guy in April who found me through TikTok, he texted me and we went on a date he looks like a Doberman if that makes sense tall, tanned, handsome and buzz cut with a muscle body. He was a gentleman on our date,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

I told my crush I liked him and now he talks to everyone but me. what is this?

There is the guy I met, he is my bosses son, he came to work for a few months. He's been staring at me for months, and looking away when I caught him, he only stares, and that's it. He initially used to joke with me via...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

To the women with boyfriends?

To the women with boyfriends. So this girl during training class was eyeing me for a couple of times. Very attractive woman and I thought nah she'll never notice me. I thought maybe late 20s early 30s. Very vintage...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

She mistreated me for years now she wants to reconnect. What would you do?

Long story short many years ago I asked a colleague out and she rejected me. I was okay with that and not even awkward, but she started to mistreat/bully/gaslight me and I couldn't react because if I did I was the...

Robocod

Xper 3 Age: 34

Relationships

Is he being inconsiderate?

bigdreamer1

Xper 5 Age: 34

This last week I took off 3 days of work & we went to visit his best friend and his wife. I had made plans for a happy hour with a friend last night & Wed afternoon he told me I needed

This last week I took off 3 days of work & we went to visit his best friend and his wife. I had made plans for a happy hour with a friend last night & Wed afternoon he told me I needed to go to a client dinner with him so I cancelled my original plans. We are hosting the duo we just went & visited this last weekend since they are coming into town for a wedding. Last night on our way to dinner he lets me know he’s going to a guys night tonight & so I reach out to one of my girlfriends to hang out. Today he asks if there’s any way I can leave work early & I do. I let him know I can & that i’m running 2 quick errands first. I get home & he’s playing xbox and asks me to blow him. I the comment & start doing chores. After I have been home for 45 minutes he comes to me and starts undoing his pants &gesturing to give him a bj, I just stare. He mouths how I never want to “take care of him” and walks off. I tell him the reason I am not is because he is going to be gone all night with the boys &when I come home he’s playing games with the boys for 45 min so I don’t feel obligated to serve him when he’s not considering the time with me. He states he isn’t going to fight with me and I told him I’m not fighting just telling you why I’m not giving you a bj. He goes to lay in bed &I go lay beside him while he scrolls social for about 20 min before turning away from me &acting like he is going to sleep. I get up to feed the dogs and go to sit by the pool and within 5 min he is leaving the house, not saying a word to me, then texts noticeably annoyed that he will be gone until boys night starts. This is somewhat a common occurrence when he doesn’t get his way, he’ll ignore me even if I try to talk to him he won’t respond. I just don’t see why he doesn’t get we have &are about to spend a lot of time with his people &I’d like to think he’d take advantage of our alone time, not use it to continue to spend with others and only give me attention if intimacy is involved. General thoughts?

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Travel

I visited the USA for the first time. It was not how I thought it would be..

At first I was a little scared to visit, but everything bad I read online turned out to be false. It is now my favorite country I have visited (I've been to about 32 countries so far). I love love the diversity in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Guy's Behavior

Why would a guy stare/lock eyes with a girl but then ignore her?

So confusing and he does this regularly.

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Did I save myself from a night of humiliation?

Beauty is in eye of the beholder. But most people, probably 85% would classify me as unattractive or average looking while the minority 15% will see me as ridiculously attractive. I don't go out often but when I do, I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

I’m so confused? He kept staring at me but then suddenly stopped, why?

There’s this guy in my lecture, and he would always stare at me. We repeatedly made eye contact during lectures, he turned around to look at me multiple times, tried to catch my eye multiple times, done a double take when...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Is he interested?

So there is a guy in my math class who I've never really spoken to (and still don't in person or online.) Regardless I added him on Snapchat and he added me back. I snapped him a ceiling picture and we went back and forth...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Guy's Behavior

Does he like me?

Anonymous

(Under 18)