Search Results: insecurity in long distance relationship

Going no contact with dismissive avoidant?

My ex of 1.5 years and I had a long distance relationship. The distance and no plans to move in together in the near future put a lot of strain on the relationship. Trust, insecurity, were also part of the problem on both...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

What Would You Do if Your Long-Distance Partner Isn’t Giving You Enough Attention?

Hey everyone, I’m looking for some insight or advice on something that’s been on my mind a lot lately. I’ve been in a relationship with this amazing girl for the past two months, but we’ve known each other for almost a...

tpskchats

Xper 2 Age: 23

Relationships

What would you do if your partner (in a long distance relationship) is not giving u enough attention?

I am in relationship with this girl since last 2 months but we have been friend since last 11 months. I got to know her as my best friends girlfriend but they had a falling out and they broke up 10 months back and...

AvgCollegeGuy

Xper 1 Age: 22

Dating

Left for a friend when it became a ldr? Is there something wrong with me? To want them back?

I will try to summarize, met online and the first date was on Valentine's and she showed up over 4 hours late and drunk (feel free to call me a dumbass for continuing) we started dating and it came to light she has bpd...

iamathrowaway

Xper 1 Age: 34

Relationships

I’m tired and regret that I didn’t put enough time to built this relationship, that now I think it’s too late?

When my boyfriend and I started dating I was working away every second week. We did long distance for 5 months out of our 10 month relationship. Within that time during our first month I found out he stayed at his ex gfs...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Would you let her (long distance friend/potential relationship) go after this?

Me (30) girl long distance tiktok dancer (25) meet in late September 2023 on tiktok live. She seemed interested in me initially. We messaged each other around late October she confessed she liked me. Reason: I wasn't like...

Cocochoh

Xper 5 Age: 36

Relationships

Is he done with the relationship?

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend & I have been together for 5 years now, and we have had a fair share of ups & downs. At the beginning, he used to cause most of the issues due to insecurity or other

My boyfriend & I have been together for 5 years now, and we have had a fair share of ups & downs. At the beginning, he used to cause most of the issues due to insecurity or other things which I forgave him for & moved on from. Over time, I did individual therapy to get past old trauma and we went to couple’s counseling unofficially for a couple of months which both was extremely helpful since we do have communication issues.

Recently, we decided to go on a vacation & he decided that he wanted to go to Niagara Falls since he was picky about the destination. I created a google doc & everything for the trip to keep track of expenses & itinerary. Since I was in charge of the rental car, I got it, picked him up from the airport, & he had normal behavior. That ended when we missed a turn, & he advised me to do a 3-point turn to which the police pulled me over for. I blamed him immediately & he got extremely upset to the point he didn’t want to talk to me anymore even though he was still a little at fault regardless if it was my decision to do it.

Later on in the trip, he quickly realized he didn’t pack the right clothes so I gave him both of my jackets so he wouldn’t be cold. He tried to do the half sharing jacket thing, & I told him no since the jacket was wet & he got very upset again where he stated “you ruined the trip because of your attitude.” By the end of the trip, he stated how we’re “so different”, how he is unhappy due to thinking about all the bad things he’s done in the past to me, & wants me to be with someone better. I was shocked since I thought he moved on from it, & I advised him to start therapy since he stated he wasn’t sure what he wanted from life himself. He kept rejecting the idea of it stating how it wouldn’t help, but eventually agreed to try. I told him I didn’t want to break up since I personally wasn’t unhappy being with him & my happiness is my decision to which he said “it’s not about you, it’s me.” What do you think? We are long distance

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Relationships

Why are men who are in a relationship attracted to another woman?

When I notice it, I look at those kind of men weird and then I look away because I know when one of the men is in a relationship. Like they never come close but stare from a distance. I just dislike it that men in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Did I blow this?

I have been in a long-distance relationship with a man who is going through a lot in regards to stress and divorce. He had been distant for days and I sent a message on Sunday that perhaps it would be best that he work...

Lovesick40

Xper 4 Age: 44

Relationships

Can someone who actually has severe control and trust issues change?

My relationship with my long distance ex was rocky. In the beginning, I did a lot of things for him to feel at peace within the relationship. I stopped posting pictures on social media, erased my past pictures, cut off...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

How to fix anxiety and insecurity in a relationship?

I (25F) have really bad anxiety and depression. I'm on medication and it helps with my normal day to day. Unfortunately my anxiety with my relationship is really bad. My partner (30M) so far has been absolutely amazing...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Is it possible to have a loving boyfriend who is severely controlling at the same time? Some advice needed?

My relationship with my long distance boyfriend who was about to move to my country was idea. I'm sure he deeply loved me and I also deeply adored him, we were really into each other. However, over time and as our...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

I feel jealous and uncomfortable when my boyfriend goes to parties without me?

We have been together for going on 3 years, we are currently long distance until the end of summer, my boyfriend was going through a rough patch drinking a lot and doing some drugs (not extremely hard drugs) during that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

If you about to enter into a long distance relationship again, what essentials would you consider be discussed before it finally happens?

Would you hide things from him/her. What can those be? As a girl if you really love your partner what questions you would not like to answer. As a girls if you not in a serious mood for that relationship. What can...

he-takes-a-part

Xper 6 Age: 30

Relationships

Will a “relationship journal” help Long Distance Relationship Progress?

Right now I was talking to my LDR boyfriend. Asking him questions about our relationship and future. He told me that we should take our relationship slow, so it can grow. To wait in a course of 3 years. It made me...

FictionalCharacter

Guru Age: 36

Relationships

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How I ruined my long distance relationship: 5 things I did!

Before this MyTake, I wrote another one pointing out the flaws of my ex (5 red flags). This one is an insight of how I contributed to the fall of the relation. ⚠️The LDR ended years ago. It lasted 3 years. It was...

DiegoO

Guru Age: 36

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Relationships

When do u think I should lose my virginity and how do ik to who?

i am 14, and I've been thinking about this for a while now i am in a long distance relationship and there is one big insecurity that I have that he does not care about at all, and everybody else judges me for… I feel like...

herraa

Xper 2 Age: 19

Relationships

Should I ask her if she is still iinterested in me?

I have been chatting with this woman (we are in a long distance relationship) for a few weeks now and for a while it was all constant texting every chance we had, but over the last two weeks it has gone somewhat quiet,...

Quinn27

Xper 3 Age: 49

Relationships

Discovering a dark event in an online partner's past, what to do?

Hello, This is not a usual situation to face but I require some help. I have been in a long distance relationship with a guy of my age (21) for a few months. Things have been going well and we plan to meet next year....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Is it okay to send my boyfriend nudes this early in our long distance relationship?

So my boyfriend and i met online about a month and a half ago, and we are extremely into eachother. we live in different countries but we're managing pretty well, we both make equal efforts and make sure we're giving...

Anonymous

(25-29)