No don’t.
definitely not the first time.
it is something you need to be sure about yourself.
never feel pressurised in to it.
make sure you think long and hard, that you are sure about the guy.
A lot on line simply make a relationship to claim things like virginities.
therefore never first time.
wait as long as you are happy to, be comfortable and confident first.
make sure you have sex education on contraception and STD’s.
be ready mentally, emotionally first.
First, your body, your rules. Whom you gift with your virginity is your decision. Second, as for who, I suggest first time with a person near your age with a below average size penis as it will hurt more and be more enjoyable for you. You can always move up to larger ones when you are more stretched out. But I also advise you to wait until you are of legal age of consent in your jurisdiction, especially if the guy is older than you. Depending on the jurisdiction you could be setting your guy up for a long prison sentence. Meanwhile make sure you use condoms and lots of lube.
Personally, I echo the suggestions to wait until you're older. I agree with the comments stating if you were truly ready, you wouldn't need to ask. Also, the fact that teen pregnancy is a risk that would completely alter your life.
Do not feel pressured or feel like there is a time limit by which you need to lose it. Go by what you really feel. If you are questioning it, the answer is likely no.
if you are asking random people, you are hesitating thats your mind telling you that you are not ready. when you find and meet that right person there will be no question about should i or shouldn't i? dont ever feel obligated to have sex or pressured, you are 14 be a teen as long as you can.
Opinion
19Opinion
When you meet the right person, you won't feel the need to ask when or who with. Just remember though sex is not something you need to rush into. For every right person there is out there for you, there are several wrong ones.
Take your time and try and find the right person is my advice. You can only ever have your first sexual encounter once in your life.
Don't rush into this. I know some people in your age might be talking about their experiences, but it doesn't mean you need to follow them. Don't go after this losing early trend. My advice is to wait, the best is to wait until you can call yourself an adult.
You shouldn't. You won't gain super powers for losing your virginity. At 14 you're more likely infatuated than actually being in love. You don't know love yet. You don't know many things yet, don't rush into things like sex and don't listen to people on GAG talking about how they did all the nasty stuff at 13 or 14. You'll meet the right person to share intimate moments when you grow up. So wait!
Don't rush it will happen soon enough believe me make sure he has paperwork on his STD panel condom or no condom, see that paperwork! Go slow, U push into him so U can control the pressure. This is not a drag strip, this is your body! Happy trails, giddyup.
To me it's like a 1st grader asking when they should drive a car. Can they drive a car now? Yes. Should they? Nope. There's lots of other things to learn about life that will help you more than sex. I'd focus on the other stuff. People act like sex is so important when it's really not the most important thing at all.
You will feel so strong about that person that you wouldn't ask this question.
And you are too young there is no hurry.
Take your time the older you would be you will appreciate it more
1) you should not plan to for a long time.
2) you’ll know when you meet the right person. (Many years from now)
3) sex shouldn’t be a goal in life. It’s a perk in a relationship.
It is going to be more satisfying to have sex with someone you care about, but if you aren't ready, wait. It sounds like your boyfriend isn't pushing you. That makes him a good person in my book.
I'm sure he wants to have sex with you, but it sounds like he wants you both to be ready. Losing your virginity when you're in love will be really special.
I think you should wait until you really feel like you are in love. And don't forget about STDs and teenage pregnancy, that could ruin your life, you are still very young.
If you question whether you should, don't. It's either "Hell yes!" or "No." That goes for every decision in life, big or small.
I think you'll know, just dont rush into it, i think thats good reliable advice
I think you are way to young and could very easily end up pregnant.
If you have a condom then it doesn’t really matter. Now, we need a truce……… all I want is to be back in charge
I thought about it a lot and at this point I still haven't lost my virginity.
You should lose it as soon as possible but only after you are married. No go find a husband.
That is up to you, but I wish I had not rushed it.
After you are on birth control.
Take your time , be sure to be ready
at least 18, nothing under it
Shouldn't be that hard for you as a woman
You can also add your opinion below!
