How do I knock him off his feet?

[amIthatgirl]

We see each other probably once a week but text or talk probably 3 to 4 times a week. I have known him for about two months. I was really big on not losing my virginity till marriage but he got to me somehow and I lost my virginity to him (on my birthday). We didn't talk for about a week after I lost it. Then we talked again and I had sex again with him and I'm scared to call him because I don't know if he will answer or not and if he does answer I won't know what to say. Oh yeah uhhh I'm 16 and he's 20. But an amazing guy. He told me the first time we went out together that we should just be friends for now and see where that leads us. Well I'm scared its not going anywhere. He doesn't really show his friends he likes me but I think that's because he's at that stage in his life where he doesn't want to be in a relationship. And on his myspace under his WHO I WOULD LIKE TO MEET it says a girl who would knock me off my feet. I feel like I'm not that girl so can you help me to be that girl?

[R6LA1]

I know you said you think he's awesome, but, um, re-read your question. he sounds FAR less than awesome. If you wanted to wait to have sex but he "somehow" talked you into that, how awesome is that? then you he doesn't TALK to you for a week afterwards? Then you have sex again?! he doesn't want to act like he's in a relationship? he doesn't WANT to be in a relationship but you say you want it to go somewhere and be the girl who knocks him off his feet? Girl, don't take it personal but you need to WISE UP! this guy is out for some power trip and I'm sorry to tell you but he's using you. I know it's hard b/c you lost your virginity to him but you better get out now and re-set your standards. he sounds like a total douche.

*good luck!*

[Steph84]

Your 16! He's 20! He's not gonna show nobody He's into you cause 1 he don't wanna go to jail 2 he just wants to have sex he got what he wanted, and when he wants more he will call you cause he did it twice already...Don't waste your time trying to be someone your not!Guys don't like fake girls.