Before I get into this I'll let you know that I have worked hard my whole life. I have never Relied on a man financially. About 5 years ago I was in a really bad car crash. I almost had my foot amputated I've had a couple Of surgeries and I've suffered for a very long time. I was hit by a guy running from the police. I just happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time. I got a large Settlement. Enough to pay off my house. With some leftover. I have 2 disabilities now a physical disability and My existing Severe learning difficulties So this money is to last me my entire life working part time. I offered to help my boyfriend pay off his credit card so he Could Begin to save for our future Since now we don't have a mortgage payment. Now his brother apparently messed up and got his car impounded. But my boyfriend said he wants to help him out. So he's asking me for money to help him out. If it's a couple 100 OK sure just because he has 4 kids. And it's been very hard for them to get by. But I can't justify a couple thousand... His brother has made some very poor choices in life that led him to where he is today. When they have extra money they spend it on weed and cigarettes when him and his girlfriend should be spending it on their kids. He's been to jail, done drugs. Just a lot of bad choices. His girlfriend dosnt work. My boyfriend got him a good job but it's far from his house now he has his car impounded for speeding. Am I being selfish? On one hand I feel like I should. On the other hand I feel like now I'm a walking bank machine. I can hardly spend 300 dollers on my self...
I offered before to pay for a couple months rent for them on a new place. Where we live. Its close to his work. He can car pool with my boyfriend every day. Its walking distance to a school. And a lovely area. Their place is full of mold and should be knocked down. Sketchy area. But they refuse because they want their 4 kids to have their own room.
I offered before to pay for a couple months rent for them on a new place. Where we live. Its close to his work. He can car pool with my boyfriend every day. Its walking distance to a school. And a lovely area. Their place is full of mold and should be knocked down. Sketchy area. But they refuse because they want their 4 kids to have their own room.
