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Hey everyone, I’m looking for some insight or advice on something that’s been on my mind a lot lately. I’ve been in a relationship with this amazing girl for the past two months, but we’ve known each other for almost a year now. Funny story, I actually met her through my best friend—they were dating at the time, but after their breakup 10 months ago, we all stayed close friends.
Over time, I developed feelings for her, and now we’re together. I love her deeply, but there are a few things that are making me feel a little insecure, and I could use some perspective:
1. She’s still in contact with a couple of her exes—they seem to be just friends now, but it leaves me wondering if I should be worried or if I’m overthinking it.
2. We don’t get to see each other much because of college—and I’ve noticed she’s been calling less frequently lately. We’re both busy with studies and work, but it makes me wonder if the distance is getting to her.
3. I introduced her to my friends weeks ago, but she hasn’t made much effort to introduce me to hers. I’m trying not to read too much into it, but it feels like I’m more invested at times.
4. She’s moving abroad for work soon, and that’s only going to stretch the distance further. I’m excited for her, but the thought of even less time together makes me anxious.
5. Lastly, we haven’t fully explored physical intimacy yet, even though she’s offered a few times. We haven’t had much time together in person, and to be honest, I’m shy and not quite sure how to navigate that step.
I really care about her, but sometimes these things make me feel a bit off-balance. Has anyone else dealt with similar feelings? How do you stay confident and connected in a long-distance relationship, especially when insecurities pop up? I’d love to hear how you’ve managed to handle it and what’s worked for you.
Thanks for any advice—feeling a little lost but trying to stay hopeful!
Over time, I developed feelings for her, and now we’re together. I love her deeply, but there are a few things that are making me feel a little insecure, and I could use some perspective:
1. She’s still in contact with a couple of her exes—they seem to be just friends now, but it leaves me wondering if I should be worried or if I’m overthinking it.
2. We don’t get to see each other much because of college—and I’ve noticed she’s been calling less frequently lately. We’re both busy with studies and work, but it makes me wonder if the distance is getting to her.
3. I introduced her to my friends weeks ago, but she hasn’t made much effort to introduce me to hers. I’m trying not to read too much into it, but it feels like I’m more invested at times.
4. She’s moving abroad for work soon, and that’s only going to stretch the distance further. I’m excited for her, but the thought of even less time together makes me anxious.
5. Lastly, we haven’t fully explored physical intimacy yet, even though she’s offered a few times. We haven’t had much time together in person, and to be honest, I’m shy and not quite sure how to navigate that step.
I really care about her, but sometimes these things make me feel a bit off-balance. Has anyone else dealt with similar feelings? How do you stay confident and connected in a long-distance relationship, especially when insecurities pop up? I’d love to hear how you’ve managed to handle it and what’s worked for you.
Thanks for any advice—feeling a little lost but trying to stay hopeful!
