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Search Results: just being nice
Are these friendly baristas actually flirting with me or just being nice?
I go to cafes to get coffee a lot. Sometimes, the male baristas would be handsome young guys with super sunny, dreamy eyes when I make eye contact with them. The type of look almost as if they want to hit on me. I don't...
Anonymous
(25-29) Were these people actually being rude in this group conversation?
Was basically talking in a small group of people. One of them was being nice (female). The other two not so much. I mean they weren't even really looking at me much while talking only looking at each other etc. When I did...
Anonymous
(36-45) Are blunt non‑white people unfairly seen as rude by many white Americans?
White Americans are the most fake people here in America. When someone puts someone in their place for being a piece of shit , all of a sudden white people view that person as an asshole. White Americans tend to be nice...
Anonymous
(30-35) How can you realistically tell if you’re actually ugly or attractive?
People sometimes say I’m handsome but fuck it maybe they’re just being nice. They don’t say it most of the time though. and it’s not like people will say you’re ugly. Still, it’s hard for me to tell. I see myself in a...
Anonymous
(25-29) Am I playing it too safe with women and blocking my own dating chances?
I've been single my whole life because I've always played it safe with women, hiding any interest or trying my best not to confuse flirting with being nice and that usually leaves me confused on how women feel about me....
Anonymous
(18-24) How can a shy, quiet girl actually get a boyfriend if guys overlook her?
I do talk but still labeled as quiet. ironically I’m alone all the time cuz I have no boyfriend or husband next to clingy following me 24/7 in a serious relationship chatting laughing. As I don’t have that I’m alone...
Anonymous
(25-29) How should I respond to people who are very nice but really weird?
Had this happen this evening. Ran into a really weird yet very friendly younger man. The way he was acting had me wondering if he was gay (I'm not). He wasn't creepy about it at least. He was socially awkward, but he...
Anonymous
(36-45) What’s more important?
Winning the World Cup In soccer ⚽️ Or winning the Olympics in soccer. Or the world championships? To me, I say winning the World Cup is being the best in the world winning the world championship. Not the other...
u Iron_Man
Mentor Age: 46 He saves me, then avoids me and won’t look at me—what does this mean?
Hi everyone. I just wanted to ask a question. If a guy that knows you, he kind of knows she likes him (has a crush on him). I subconsciously stare at him and he finds me looking at me. Like I look at him, he looks at me,...
Anonymous
(18-24) Do you take a step back in your natural leadership/approach to things when you like a guy?
I was chatting with a few of my female friends yesterday and we agreed that when there's someone we like we kind of give them a bit of "leadership space" in our life. Let the guy choose if we're staying in or going out,...
Former colleague asks if I'll be "the star" at his wedding?
Where I come from the bride is always the star of her own wedding. However for some reason the groom -- a former colleague -- announced to me that he's getting married and is FURIOUS about a bunch of things his mil-to-be...
Should I feel bad that this guy at a group hangout didn’t remember me?
So I was going to this group hangout (I think I went 4 times before) and this was my 5th. One of the guys was being very nice and friendly. He clearly did remember me. However another one asked me if it was the first time...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it healthy to stay single rather than settle for someone you don’t want?
There's a certain look I prefer ( I'm not shallow) and personality, character and mindset I want in a person. I feel like people lack certain things or don't have any of what I want. And I can't settle either. I'm...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do so many women act rude toward men they’re not attracted to?
She will treat him like he’s a second class citizen, a dirty person, a monster, an insect, etc. It doesn’t matter how respectful he is. It doesn’t matter if he’s already married and has no interest in her. It doesn’t...
Anonymous
(30-35) Was he just being nice or did he like me?
So the thing is like it was an Uber driver i can tell from the car they are smart/likely have another job and doing this as a part-time thing. They were talking to me asked do I need wipes, saying 'sorry didn't mean to...
Anonymous
(36-45) When a younger guy propositions an older woman, is it "just for fun" by default?
I've had this dialogue with a few people bc in my opinion a younger guy with his whole life ahead of him isn't propositioning a woman old enough to be his mother for anything more than a short-term fling. He wants to say...
What makes a guy want to hold a girl's hand?
I used to hold hands or walk arm-in-arm with guy friends all the time. Something about the dynamic changed midway through college when the guys all started looking for our serious dating companions and I kept to my...
Why are women often treated almost like second class citizens in a lot of mainstream religions?
Controversial question day today! It seems to me that in some of the bigger mainstream religions that women are often expected to serve the man, obey the man's word, and live a life according to men's rules. I am...
u Which couple’s body language looks more natural, Brad Pitt’s or Chris Pine’s?
We always had been known Body Language is important as it gives clues and details that you can't deny just by photos alone. For you which couple looks have a spark as a couple and indeed they are into each other and which...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) What's a good answer to give people who pester you abput being single?
I'm often asked why I'm single and for some reason this year it's bugging me. I'm not sure how to answer. Whether it's part of some guy's way of flirting or a comment made by folks in the community who know me and as that...
