Were these people actually being rude in this group conversation?

[Anonymous]

Was basically talking in a small group of people. One of them was being nice (female).

The other two not so much. I mean they weren't even really looking at me much while talking only looking at each other etc.

When I did occasionally speak the girl was being nice but the other two weren't really engaging much.

2-3 times when I was about to speak another would talk at the same time and not even bother to turn back to me and say what were you saying again?

Once when I was literally speaking the same person was like talking at the same time and talking over me even when i was continuing to speak, I persisted and continued speaking.

The thing is common sense tells me yeah they were being rude. But why they barely know me.

[SueShe]

I would say that this is rude to interrupt a conversation or not to pay attention when one of the member of a small group talks or to ignore that person.

This is a problem of lack of proper education or of dislike for that person that speaks to interfere. They could have waited till you are finished talking. Also, not looking at a person while addressing her is also something that could be perceived as trying to make you feel inferior for whatever reason.

Did you have an issue with those 2 guys before? Perhaps they want to make you feel rejected in that group.

[Asker]

They weren't addressing me, but just not really looking at me, only looking at each other. the two guys.

The girl was nice though

[Asker]

Hmm not really. I mean earlier I was having a discussion with some people and things got a bit heated but they weren't sitting close so I didn't think they heard, not sure if they heard?

The one guy who was talking over me etc. I do think good chance he doesn't like me for some reason.

I'm actually wondering if the next time I see both I should just ignore them.

[SueShe]

Just ignore them and see how they react

[Asker]

I guess what threw me off is why would they both act this way?

I'm concerned if I ignore both they may do it more as they're two and I'm one.

But yeah maybe I should ignore especially if they were being disrespectful on purpose.

[Nikki1989]

Men, with a few exceptions, are generally lacking in social skills.