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Pros:
- Very thoughtful towards my family and spends time with them, pays for them when going out
- Loves me, always checks up on me and takes care of me.
-We also have fun joking around and talking to each other
- Sometimes surprise me with snacks so I don't stress out too much in school
-Very good with kids and always trying to make me happy when I communicate my needs and
concerns

Cons:
-Doesn't have similar interests together (I like sightseeing, exercising, and going out, he likes staying home and spend time with fam)
-Doesn't have a stable career or any ambition
(Makes minimum wage and tells me he will find a better job but nothing changed after a few years,
I'm still in school trying to become a nurse)
-Incompatible sex drives (I get sex deprived bc we only have sex when he wants it and we don't do it as much)
- Doesn't prioritize me (last minute cancelled on my bday bc he doesn't want to do what I want to do and is tired that day)

Overall it's not a bad relationship. He's a very sweet guy but sometimes I don't feel like we're compatible and lately, I feel like im slowly falling out of love. Especially since he's not even trying to improve himself with a better career. But then at the same time I still have so much love for him and don't want to regret leaving him. We've been together for a couple years so I don't know. Is this relationship worth staying in or should I find someone more compatible?

I know this is not how the law works, but for this fun activity let's pretend it is.

Ok, so this was a fun activity we once did in my psychology class.

You play a detective. A woman (ms. A) walks in and tells you, that a person (mr. B) Has been harrassing them by text message and would like to file a restraining order. You decide if the restraining order is accurate or not.

Ms. A: shows evidence of over 200 hundred messages complaining about her actions, and even after over 10 times of Ms. A asking Mr. B to stop harrassing and contacting her, he does not stop messaging her and spins it as having a discussion.

Mr. B. Suspecting you are investigating him for harrassment comes to you. Tries to spin the story that it was 2 friends having a disagreement. He goes on a very long winded overly detailed information about what happened. And it does not seem the same as what evidence you saw.

You make your decision to send the restraining order to the judge.(yes i know this isn't how the law works, but for this exercise it does)

MR. B: disappointed in the decision and has your number sends you over 125 messages telling you that you are wrong, and then when you say you are not changing your decision. Sends 75 messages trying to convince you that you are hurting his wife, and making her sick. You then say. "I believe in my heart i am right. Could I be wrong? Possibly. But to much evidence proves you to be guilty. So in my heart i believe you are guilty and will continue."

MS. A. Tells you she is still a victim as they wait for the court hearing. She sends you 75 of the 200 messages. Where he blames her for the detective's choice. Mr. B then accuses you the detective of being one sided and only listening to her. Then you see Mr. B has now lied about what you said. He took your words and twisted them. He claimed you said. "I am most likely wrong, and don't care that I'm wrong, and I am choosing to side with Ms. A"

I must admit right away that I'm not very interesting or fun to most people. I'm not a huge fan of travelling, exercising or just straight up being a social butterfly.

• Do you believe we've got to have some interesting universally liked hobbies to find a partner?
• What are the hobbies (especially uncommon hobbies) that you like your partner to have?
• And how much do you care about hobbies in the first place?

I don't think a guy who is in love with travelling and/or climbing could find me interesting in the first place!

• My hobbies are pretty much these:

baking (from time to time)
politics (I like to have an overview)
reading (short stories mostly)
gaming (I used to game a lot when I was younger, now I do it only occasionally)
movies (especially horror and movies from directors like Carpenter or Tarantino)
cars (not a pro but I enjoy watching races, Rallye for example, and I like to take car of my car and I enjoy car rides very much)
shopping (mostly online shopping, shopping clothes for my boyfriend or myself)
pets (we've got cats and horses, I love both, I love animals in general)

I won't lie, I'm a homebody, is that a turn off? I believe that there's nothing better than being cuddled up in bed/on a couch and enjoying a movie while eating cookies and later getting handsy with each other.

I'm just really simple, very physical and basic things make me happy... I don't need much else.

I'd only want to start going out a bit more, like a theatre or eating out at new or favorite restaurants/bistros. Plus, I have never tried bowling and I'm not the best at swimming, I want to work on that.