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Is it weird if I find my step cousin attractive?
My cousin’s mom got remarried when we were in middle school or high school. But I hardly seen my step cousin since then because there were lots of family drama with my aunty and uncle marriage with my step cousins who...
Anonymous
(30-35) Were they just meant to be together?
Maybe they’re meant to be together? I feel hurt after my cousin secretly started talking to a guy I confided in her about then tried to gaslight me about it and really started struggling with my mental health… I haven’t...
Anonymous
(25-29) How do I cope with lifelong loneliness and never having a relationship?
Im in my late 20s and long story short; never had a boyfriend or even dated. I never had friends. I never had a relationship with my family. Every social interaction goes horribly wrong whether i speak or not so i can't...
77five
Xper 5 Age: 27 Advice for Guys: Avoid Unclean Women
Let me tell you a story about a girl I used to know, who actually turns out to be a few years older than me but who lied about her age because she looked very young, even younger than myself, and a lot of people often...
What should I wear out tonight if it’s very cold but I want to look attractive?
My guy friend said that if I want to attract men, I should wear a dress with pantyhose and my puffer jacket. On the one hand, I know I look better in a dress and pantyhose than in trousers and a bulky multicoloured...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Should be careful in this situation with this man who looks identical to another man I know and don't like, or should I assume it's coincidental?
I got recently approached by a man who I'll call *Marco (not his real name). He was sort of cute and we had a good chat, then he requested that we chat outside the dating site, on social media. After talking for a while,...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Is dating a younger guy in my late 20s worth the risk?
Would you date a younger guy? Any experiences with dating a man 4-6 years younger than you in your 20s under CERTAIN CONDITIONS. I am absolutely NOT attracted to younger men and I turn down men 2 years younger than me…...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I date a younger guy who’s still figuring out his career and life?
I’ve never been attracted to any guy my age or younger… I like men 4-10 years older… but there’s a nice guy who is a few years younger and he was nice and mannerable … but I’m sure he’s still figuring himself out and he...
Anonymous
(25-29) Are weak men the problem in relationships?
A lot of men complain about the way women are today, and I agree. But is it because most men today are weak and don't take the lead? Men have been conditioned by society to see women as the prize and to follow the...
Steve-the-lion
Xper 3 Age: 42 If a guy wants marry you and you don’t like him back, does that mean he’s love of your life and soulmate, the one?
I’m asking as I’m almost 30 and never met a guy that I love that loves me back. I never had a serious relationship. I crush on guys and they show interest back but never serious like meeting family or living together , no...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why would a guy copy a girl but won't reach back out?
I love jk Rowling and he started reading the books, I loved these shoes I showed the group chat then he bought a pair! Its like he's taking all of my ideas and not given me any credit. For context he knows im attracted to...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, Do you find Victoria Secret models way too skinny/underweight?
I personally find them underweight because I understand models are pressured to look that way. From their diets to their vigorous exercise routines… I’m not sure if my body size at a healthy weight will attract any man,...
Anonymous
(25-29) Attraction advice?
I’ve noticed that I always tend to attract guys who are very possessive and obsessed. Although I don’t show any signs of interest or reciprocate anything. Why is that? Is there some psychological reasoning for this? Or...
Bunnyloppy123
Xper 1 Age: 18 Is it colorism if so how can I stop it?
Ever since I was a kid, my first crush was very light-skinned and pale. Most of the guys I was attracted to were also light-skinned. I wasn’t too fond of darker skin—it never really appealed to me. I also noticed that...
Anonymous
(18-24) What is your view of attracting your type?
Before I knew my boyfriend was on the market, I had a dream the visual options for my type of guy were elite and highly saturated. I am assuming he likes my personality because he seems extremely interested in me when I...
I really want a boyfriend but can’t find a man that I actually like?
I’m ready to be in a relationship I just turned 22 and feel like I’m at a point in my life where I want to be with a man but it’s just really hard because the selection in my city is very small and half the men already...
Anonymous
(18-24) Do you think some people are just born to be sluts , or is it because of how they were treated?
And yes Guys’ and Girls’ both can be sluts , , do you think they were born that way or they became that way because of what they experienced in life? Most of our choices and decisions in life stem down to our childhood ,...
What does it mean when a guy you have known for a while who has never complimented you, suddenly compliments you often?
There is someone I engage fairly closely with at my university. We have known one another for over 2 years, and while he will compliment non-physical things, such as my intelligence and teaching capabilities over the...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why are the women that pick Black men as a preference never like hard-working and faithful Black men?
So I will preface this by saying that this is a serious post, and not some racist ragebait. All responses to this should be thoughtful, and I apologize in advance if this comes across as offensive as this is not my...
Anonymous
(18-24) Do you assume a guy's act of kindness is because he's attracted to you?
Someome else asked this question about acts of kindness. I've never had any major acts detailed like his, but it got me wondering what I consider an act of kindness. Last week I talked to a cashier about a fragrance she...
Anonymous
(25-29) 