Attraction advice?

[Bunnyloppy123]

I’ve noticed that I always tend to attract guys who are very possessive and obsessed. Although I don’t show any signs of interest or reciprocate anything. Why is that? Is there some psychological reasoning for this? Or could it just be my personality/ attributes or looks. I’ve found they’ve mainly liked me on a surface level bases, meaning looks and body etc. But they still become very obsessed fast. And they show jealousy like crazy. Any reasoning for this?

[RedTiefling]

You are 18, i am assuming these guys are also around 18?

They're just young and figuring relationships out.

Pay no mind to the bitter comments you might get here, it takes time to out-grow that behavior. Don't give up, normal guys exist 👍

Put yourself in environments you enjoy and you will meet like minded people.

[Alex-Snow]

They are probably trying to figure out relationships and most are probably new to them or even sex. When you meet a guy you are interested in maybe let him know gently early on what you like about guys and what are things that make you uncomfortable. Message me if you want to chat more about it.

[FreyaRed]

Appear more assertive, this will deter most guys who behave like gardener's dog who barks on everyone who walks along the fence.

[genericname85]

well you would likely attract other type of guys if you were showing signs of interest but that is the type of guy that will be attracted no matter what xD so yeah.

[In_Trance]

The law of attraction says like attracts like