Should I date a younger guy who’s still figuring out his career and life?

[Anonymous]

I’ve never been attracted to any guy my age or younger… I like men 4-10 years older… but there’s a nice guy who is a few years younger and he was nice and mannerable … but I’m sure he’s still figuring himself out and he talked about doing a 180 from majoring in production to aviation.

Even though he had a better attitude and maybe quiet confidence I feel like there would be different worlds… I have a career etc and make good money..

and sex! Is it better

[Summeroflove]

Well dating isn’t jumping into a relationship. That’s why people date is to see if you’re compatible so you can forever wonder what could have been or one way or another. You’ll either have closure as well as can move on or it will turn into something great.

Some people end up marrying someone who isn’t their “type” because frankly they have tried that and it ends the same way. Until they find someone new and it works. I don’t know what will happen. But date….. Not saying jump head first into a relationship but yes. Try it.

[Finchie40]

Age doesn’t really determine on whether a relationship will be good or bad , all that matters is the both of you have great chemistry and connection and you both are attracted to each other , I was married to a girl that was 4 years older than me for a good 20 years until she decided she wanted to be selfish , but for a long time , her and I were inseparable , until she changed.

[PolarPoint]

No , He will instinctively always desire a girl younger than himself. Can you accept living with that reality?

[Asker]

That’s true lol

[Anonymous]

So what you’re saying is you’re not willing to support him for the time being if things got serious? That’s what it sounds like to me. You want someone who makes as much as you or more. It’s funny men never seem to have an issue w it but most women do. I’d just leave him alone. You’re expecting a finished product, he’s still in the making.

[Asker]

No because men gain confidence and leave you for a better woman

[Opinion Owner]

No they don’t. That’s your experience. Not all men do that. I mean how is that even true when a majority of men have never even been w a woman. There’s no way to prove that. If someone is a jerk to begin w then they acquire money, status, etc, chances are they’re going to be even more of a jerk. Just the same as a man who is generous. He’s going to be even more generous.

[jamesgoldman]

Depends on how advanced he is, I mean I was running my own business by that age and ended up dating older when I bothered with it

I know a family friend who 19 and he's so screwed on that I've wanted to pour him a Scotch since he was 14

[LifeLover91]

You like me then since u said 4 to 10 years lol

[Zionne]

gotta do that girl!