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Search Results: notice first
Why do I always feel left out and invisible in every social group?
I always end up being left out in every environment. I can’t seem to speak up when I’m around people. Everywhere I go, everyone is in a group, talking and laughing, while I don’t feel like I belong anywhere. I don’t talk,...
sonaaa
Xper 1 Age: 20 Should I change my McDonald’s schedule back to 5 days of 9 hours?
I work at mcdonald's. I was working 5 days a week 9 hour days closing. I was feeling burnt out so I asked my gm if I could just come in at 7pm for now on instead of 3pm. She said she would work on it. She only ended up...
Joe917
Xper 4 Age: 34 How do I approach this girl at my gym who is my old friend’s sister?
about a month ago i noticed this brunette girl who was really hot suddenly appear at my gym , i didn't realise who she was at first and wasn't even sure i knew her at all but then i eventually realised she was the younger...
Anonymous
(36-45) How does trauma play into your fantasies?
So i know the nonconsensual consensual play and bdSm can be linked to trauma and can influence what you get turned on by. Concerning myself, I've had a lot of bad experiences with men and sometimes men at work. Like this...
Anonymous
(25-29) What's the compliment you get most often?
For me.. it's my eyes.. a guy friend recently told me, "Your eyes were the first thing I noticed about you, they're incredibly expressive”☺️..
ElenaSeluna
Xper 6 Age: 31 How do you protect yourself when you get sick through your eyes first?
I started to notice a pattern when it's a viral infection, my eyes will get watery and red for a few days and turn back to normal, then a few days later im sick. That's actually happened 1st when I had covid and my doctor...
Anonymous
(25-29) How badly did I mess up by dating my first girlfriend at 29?
Notice I am asking how bad I fucked up instead of “if I fucked up” lol. I got my first girlfriend ever at 29, and she was a 7/10. She constantly was unfaithful and made fun of it, I lost tons of money spending it on her....
Rendozov
Xper 2 Age: 28 Why am I so intensely attracted to this girl when I barely know her?
this girl started going to my gym late last year , she's from my home area but we had never meet before. she came off as cute / attractive at the time so i noticed her rate away. a bit later i found out she also had a...
Anonymous
(36-45) How can I learn to be more affectionate with a new guy I’m seeing?
So I met this man at the gym. He came up to me and we started talking. Since day one I told him my communication is horrible on the sense of I don’t want to feel like a bother to someone I’m talking to. At first I thought...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is my boyfriend’s follow–unfollow behavior on Instagram a red flag?
I noticed that my boyfriend follows random girls on Instagram. So I asked one girl to send him a follow request, and he accepted it and followed her back. He didn't send any text to her, though. What bothers me is that he...
Anonymous
(18-24) Was I actually in danger with this older limo driver or just paranoid?
Was in my early 20’s working at my dad’s spot & learned who the regulars were over time. One was this Italian limo driver, always known him by his first name, always tries his luck with me, but I always declined....
Anonymous
(30-35) In a party or club, what’s the first thing you notice about someone?
When in a social situation (nightclub, party, etc.) – and someone of the opposite gender enters … what is the very first thing (positive or negative) that manifests into your opinion of that person?
been_burned_b4
Xper 2 Age: 51 How can I turn down a coworker’s crush politely without hurting my job prospects?
I am a student on work placement, well into adulthood. I’ve noticed that one of the male trainers there around my age seems to have a big crush on me. I’ll be working on a task for my tafe assignment and I’ll see him...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do you apply deodorant before or after putting your clothes on?
I hate the sticky feeling of deodorant, I wear roll on deodorant, so I usually apply it right after shower and let it dry before putting my clothes on. But I’ve noticed that some people put their clothes on first and then...
beenherebefore
Yoda Age: 36 Why is my coworker flirting at work but ignoring me on dating apps?
So basically, when I first met this guy it was at work because we are coworkers to be honest I didn’t even notice him at first but the day after our work Christmas party something had shifted he noticed ME and was...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why does my coworker flirt at work but ghost me on dating apps?
So basically, when I first met this guy it was at work because we are coworkers to be honest I didn’t even notice him at first but the day after our work Christmas party something had shifted he noticed ME and was...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is my husband being disrespectful by following his ex on Instagram?
My husband (35m) and I (30f) are expecting our first baby together. I noticed he started following his ex on instagram so I asked him why the sudden follow and if they were talking. She’s married too. He said she followed...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is my married coworker’s extra attention just respect or hidden attraction?
There’s this coworker of mine and he’s a phenomenal doctor, good man and highly respected. I never kiss as s though and I believe respect must be mutual, regardless of someone’s title. I remember when I was first...
Anonymous
(30-35) Moms, how did your body and self-image change after giving birth?
Im 32 weeks pregnant with my first baby. One part of me is really excited and the other is extremely nervous and scared. I know the realities of birth and I've heard all the horror stories. I keep thinking "I can't...
Babyseal23
Xper 3 Age: 28 
