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Take your pick between these three spaghetti dishes:

A) Spaghetti All'Amatriciana- Cherry Tomatoes and Onions are cooked off in Extra Virgin Olive Oil (EVOO). Thet are blended together with the fats rendered from frying the Guanciale. Crispy Guanciale over the top and finished off with Parmigiano Reggiano.

B) Spaghetti Al Pomodoro- Heirloom Cherry Tomaotes and Onions seared off with EVOO and reduced. Blended and strained. Garnished with freshly torn basil to finish.

C) Spaghetti of Sun-Dried Tomatoes and Olives- Sun-Died Tomatoes are seared off in a pan, olives are added then capers. Fresh Basil Leaves at the end. Homemade toasted Italian breadcrumbs used as the final garnish.

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So, I am a second-generation immigrant from a very traditional and conservative country, now living in one of the most liberal Western countries in the world. I am very grateful to be living here as the quality of life and opportunities are just a lot better; however, needless to say, the cultural differences are immense.

One of the things that always bothered me growing up was this "rush" to lose your virginity, especially as a guy. My friends would drag me along to clubs and stuff, and I'm not a bad-looking guy by any means, and opportunities for me to have "one-night stands" have presented themselves, but I never really had any interest in this.

Call me corny, but the idea of being intimate with someone I do not have a very strong emotional connection with, someone who couldn't be my wife in the future, did not appeal to me.

Guys talk about this stuff, and I am open about this in my friend group as I don't feel like lying about it, but I find myself being the subject of "virgin" jokes quite often, especially considering my age (which isn't an abnormal thing in my home country).

Now, I know it's all in good fun and I know they have no malicious intent, but I can't help but wonder if this would be a problem for potential future mates. So my question to you girls is, if a guy you were dating in his mid to late twenties said he was a virgin, would you immediately associate that with negative attributes? Would this be a problem or perhaps not your first choice, would you be indifferent or heck even prefer it?

If a guy is very average in looks , short in height slim built...

He has NEVER been in any kind of relationship with a girl, never even had female friend, is a virgin too.

Hello is soft spoken, is very simple minded, not a much smart person, socially awkward and prefers being at home compared to being outside around/with people.

Is he fit and attractive enough for relationship with a woman and possibly being married and having kids?