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Can you mistake comfort and daily closeness for being in love with someone?
I've been working with this guy for six months called Bradley. The job consists of us being alone together a lot travelling and relying on each other physically. We work for a small event company. a lot of the time i...
Anonymous
(25-29) Am I playing it too safe with women and blocking my own dating chances?
I've been single my whole life because I've always played it safe with women, hiding any interest or trying my best not to confuse flirting with being nice and that usually leaves me confused on how women feel about me....
Anonymous
(18-24) He says he wants to know me, but do his actions show he just wants sex?
I wanted some outside opinions on this situation. I went on a first date with a guy and left feeling like he was more interested in sex than actually getting to know me. on the day of the date I had to text him to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Am I the only big guy who hates shopping for clothes online?
I'm a big guy so I prefer to try things on and see how they look on my before I buy...
Bklynbadboy12
Guru Age: 39 She hinted at a ring but wants to keep options open—what’s going on?
Have dated a girl close to a month now. On the third date she showed me two rings and asked if i could check them out. I went and sent her pics but told her i want to go with her some day for a shared memory. At that...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does my coworker actually like me or is he just a flirty guy?
There's this guy at work. He's an officer. I'm a nurse. I actually don't remember the first time I met him. He kinda showed up to my unit out of the blue some time in December. I barely noticed him for a long time. Around...
Anonymous
(18-24) Former colleague asks if I'll be "the star" at his wedding?
Where I come from the bride is always the star of her own wedding. However for some reason the groom -- a former colleague -- announced to me that he's getting married and is FURIOUS about a bunch of things his mil-to-be...
How can I cut off a toxic friend without causing drama or guilt?
I feel terrible about the situation with this friend but it genuinely keeps me up at night. I made friends with this girl called Anna some years ago and at first we were total besties but then she got a premonition...
Babyseal23
Xper 3 Age: 28 Ladies, is it true that you're able to tell if a guy is hitting on you out of love or lust?
#1 really caught my attention. I mean here in America at least 95% of the women love to act innocent and deflect things in order to play hard to get. however back in my native country is the polar opposite. if...
Phunk_Fenomenon
Xper 3 Age: 39 
Are scruffy, always-messy girls actually unattractive to guys?
No matter what I do I just cannot stay clean! I’ve been in a self care journey. Got my hair done, grown my nails and had a manicure and got a new skin regime. I work out and I’ve got a decent build. I get up every morning...
bubbles328
Xper 7 Age: 40 Why do so many women act rude toward men they’re not attracted to?
She will treat him like he’s a second class citizen, a dirty person, a monster, an insect, etc. It doesn’t matter how respectful he is. It doesn’t matter if he’s already married and has no interest in her. It doesn’t...
Anonymous
(30-35) I’m 33, told I’m pretty, so why do guys never ask me out?
So the thing is I know I'm not bad to look at face-wise. Am I the most beautiful? I don't know about that that would be for someone else to answer. I'd describe my looks as pretty in more of an elegant kind of way. But...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do men want someone like me but never actually choose me?
Hey, I see this very interesting trend. I meet guys, we have something. And they show attraction, liking, everything, in a way they get imprinted by me - then I see them looking for who I am but externally. Not with me....
Anonymous
(25-29) What makes a guy want to hold a girl's hand?
I used to hold hands or walk arm-in-arm with guy friends all the time. Something about the dynamic changed midway through college when the guys all started looking for our serious dating companions and I kept to my...
How is an attractive shy guy meant to respond to women who want me to approach?
My last question was meant to ask this. I am abnormal, though evidently in a blessed + cursed way. I attract women who think I am attractive, and who I find to be very attractive; but I have zero ability to approach...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is my coworker being a kiss-up or just smart for seeking a desk job?
So I’ve been with this company more than 3 years she just came a few months later, the first thing she said was I’m not planning on working here that long just until this and that, than she says I’m okay with few jobs on...
Anonymous
(18-24) What single quality makes women attracted to a guy (beyond looks)?
What qualities in your opinion work? No whole package thing, just give one. How important is his handsomeness?
Anonymous
(36-45) Why did my ex choose her new fiancé over me, and can I do better?
Hello and thanks in advance! so, the pictures below is me. I was with this girl for 3 years and engaged. We been split up over a year now and she is engaged, sold her house, and living with this guy now. I changed my...
jordanb8989
Xper 5 Age: 34 What common things men do without realizing are super unattractive?
OMG, you guys! I was trying to have a peaceful, holy moment at the beach yesterday—you know, just me, the seagulls, and the majesty of the Lord—when it was completely ruined. There were these guys, strutting across the...
leannegrayson
Xper 4 Age: 20 Is my friend’s boyfriend being controlling or is she overreacting?
So she feels insecure because he has lots of girl friends on Facebook, he wants her to get rid of her "guy friends" even tho it's family and he's following half naked girls. He controls the way she dresses. And then gets...
Anonymous
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