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I wanted some outside opinions on this situation. I went on a first date with a guy and left feeling like he was more interested in sex than actually getting to know me.
on the day of the date I had to text him to confirm we were still on. I also ended up planning most of the date myself, including what we were doing. He asked what I wanted to do and told him we can go to the movies he said we would go out to eat afterwards
Before we went to the movies, he asked multiple times if I wanted to go back to his place afterward. When I asked “for what?” he would just smile and say things like “you know.” He also got very physical very quickly. He was rubbing on me, touching me, and I had to move his hands more than once because I wasn’t comfortable with it. At one point he even tried to put his hand inside my shirt.
What bothered me most was that I didn’t feel like there was much effort to actually get to know me. He asked a few basic questions, but there wasn’t much conversation about who I am as a person, my goals, interests, etc. He also fell asleep during part of the movie.
Afterward, I told him that based on his actions, it seemed like he was more interested in something physical than getting to know me. His response was that he was attracted to me but wasn’t just looking for sex. He said he wanted to get to know me and see where things could go. He also said that between work and being exhausted, he wasn’t always as present or proactive as he should have been, and that falling asleep during the movie was because he was tired, not because he wasn’t interested.
on the day of the date I had to text him to confirm we were still on. I also ended up planning most of the date myself, including what we were doing. He asked what I wanted to do and told him we can go to the movies he said we would go out to eat afterwards
Before we went to the movies, he asked multiple times if I wanted to go back to his place afterward. When I asked “for what?” he would just smile and say things like “you know.” He also got very physical very quickly. He was rubbing on me, touching me, and I had to move his hands more than once because I wasn’t comfortable with it. At one point he even tried to put his hand inside my shirt.
What bothered me most was that I didn’t feel like there was much effort to actually get to know me. He asked a few basic questions, but there wasn’t much conversation about who I am as a person, my goals, interests, etc. He also fell asleep during part of the movie.
Afterward, I told him that based on his actions, it seemed like he was more interested in something physical than getting to know me. His response was that he was attracted to me but wasn’t just looking for sex. He said he wanted to get to know me and see where things could go. He also said that between work and being exhausted, he wasn’t always as present or proactive as he should have been, and that falling asleep during the movie was because he was tired, not because he wasn’t interested.
