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The obvious answer is “no” but hear me out:

I go visit my family for a few weeks after being away for quite a while.
I find out my younger brother of one year is practically juggling two women and playing the long game with both in hopes of getting one to be his girlfriend

Woman A is gorgeous, she’s also into him, they hooked up once already, he likes her too, it’s great. But she’s a little toxic

Woman B is a “rebel” with the tattoos and the metal bands and the easy going lifestyle with promiscuity and drugs and whatnot
She’s not into him at all.
He wants her, but isn’t settled on it.

Then I come on for a while and Woman B is all over me.
Under any other circumstance I would’ve spent half the vacation in a bed with her.

So I restrain myself as the good brother.
But I can’t help but wonder if I’m doing the right thing.

My brother has every reason to want woman A and she wants him too.
And yet he’s created this needless friend-zone wrinkle with woman B and it’s going nowhere (and I don’t think it should considering her lifestyle)

Part of me wants to fuck the socks off of woman B and I can’t deny it to myself.
I get the appeal but I wouldn’t date her long term. And she doesn’t want that either clearly.

So what would you do given this scenario?
Please give some reasoning and detail

When Did The 90s End Culturally?

I’m really interested in people’s individual perceptions of how they would define a decade, to see if there’s a commonality amongst the different opinions or if they vary.

Obviously, the actual dawn of a new decade doesn't magically wipe the slate clean; there's always going to be some overhang from the previous decade before the culture shift begins and settles in. 1990 may have been the literal beginning of the 90s, but the presence of the late 80s was still very much there. It takes a little while for the crossover period to play out.

Then there’s the end of the decade, which I feel was made more contentious than it usually would be because of one ‘little’ thing: Millennium. It wasn't just a new decade, it was the turn of the century; a once in a lifetime event. I remember what a massive deal the millennium was, the whole Y2K thing, the push for all things hi-tech and futuristic and digital in the media, fashion, etc. The ‘prepping’ for it was well underway through ’99, I recall, and I feel like it ended up kind of creating its own little mini-era that eclipsed the aforementioned end of decade overhang to some extent, but didn’t truly kick off the 00s either.

I've noticed that a fair few people feel that 9/11 was the key event that brought a rather abrupt end to the 90s, because of the ripple effect it had around the whole world, and destroyed a general societal attitude that had grown through the ’90s, among other things. I was too young at the time to be aware of the larger effects of it, but I can absolutely see where that point of view is coming from.

Personally, I’ve always felt that 2002 was the year when the 00s era really began to take shape, and by ’03 the transition was more or less complete. ’01 still very much had that end of ’90s/millennium vibe in pretty much all respects (the millennium ‘mini-era’), but during ’02 I felt a palpable shift forward.

What about you guys?

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