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My ex broke up with me. It wasn’t a nasty breakup. Although she was a bit mean/dismissive at the very end. Nothing bad happened. I met her parents she met mine. Marriage talks despite a shorter 4 month relationship

I stopped contacting her and removed her off of socials. I have spent the last 6 weeks really depressed. I lost a connection and literally the most beautiful girl in the world 😭😭

I’m a guy I can lose my pride/dignity for a girl I like? Who cares?

I won’t beg her or send her an essay. But reach out check how she is and explain how I think what we had was really special. But also be like I understand if she has moved on.

No pressure or desperation in the message.

Reasons for breaking up, guy didn’t make her feel special enough, feels resistance inside.

Girl was a bit mean and dismissive to the guy at the end.

Shoukd you ever wait for the dust to settle and then try again despite being rejected once? If you really like the girl. Or do you lose self respect and dignity?

#1 really caught my attention.

I mean here in America at least 95% of the women love to act innocent and deflect things in order to play hard to get.

however back in my native country is the polar opposite. if they think you are hot or just love the game you throw at them they will use that lust to tease or test you such as replying with...

"I bet you can't handle a girl like me anyways!"

or if its love that you are bringing to the table they try to bring the realness out of you such as replying...

"is that all you got?"

so with this said I think women really do know what a man is saying most of the time. whether she chooses to act innocent however is up to her and her culture from the looks of it

I appologize for my Polglish. I don't know the term in English, but in Polish, "na raty" basically means "one at a time." For example, you can be having beans, potatoes and chicken for dinner, but instead of just having everything on one plate and eating a little bit of this and a little bit of that, you are served and eat one item at a time.

Asian people do it like this. My mom was annoyed, because we literally thought they forgot the meat and were starting to leave. So in restaurants, I too prefer all main course items/sides to be served at once. But at home, I prefer to eat "na raty", because otherwise my main dish gets cold, and also I don't like to mix items because it ruins the taste craving. So if I start eating the meat, I don't go back to the other items, so I like to eat each portion of the meal as it comes off the stove. So I usually eat a salad or beans first. Then potato or macaroni. And then the meat, if it's a three course meal.

I don't know, what about YOU guys?

And is it a cultural thing or a personal preferance?