If a girl dumps you, should you ever contact her again or move on?

[Anonymous]

Reasons for breaking up, guy didn’t make her feel special enough, feels resistance inside.

Girl was a bit mean and dismissive to the guy at the end.

Shoukd you ever wait for the dust to settle and then try again despite being rejected once? If you really like the girl. Or do you lose self respect and dignity?

Respect her decision and never contact her again

Give her space and contact her again to see if she wants to make it work

[MrChinaski]

People break up for a reason. Normally a good reason.

Are you better of trying to convince someone who knows that they don't want to be with you to be with you, or convincing someone who doesn't know you to be with you?

She's made up her mind. Clinging to some dream of something that didn't work, probably for either of you, is a sad waste of your energy.

[Anonymous]

No because nobody is valuable enough to pursue after rejection. If they already tried contacting the other person and they are not responding or explicitly rejecting you just leave it for your own sake. Then you will make room for new people and can use that experience in your new relationship. Whatever issue that person had for rejecting you, if they decide to come back or creep your profile you can tell them to go away

[lisalikes]

there are 6 billion people on this planet. Forget one or two, there are more to choose from.

[OneViewpoint]

Why do you "really like her". She sounds like a total shit. And more than a little delusional. If you keep running headfirst into that brick wall you deserve everything you're gonna get.

[Masie]

I would move on. There was a reason she didn't want to be with the guy and that is that. It is better to not make things worse and cut your losses.

[BCRanger10]

I lean more towards leave it be. If she wants to make that move, let her. More likely than not though, I wouldn't.

[LiamJHayden]

If she was mean avoid her. If it was a "this isn't working" and you realize she is correct, you can maintain a friendship if both are mature about it. I've stayed friends with a few exes.

[jamesgoldman]

Depends on the situation

I'm in context with both my ecmxes because we share friends and they moved was the only reason for breaking up

[Asker]

Isn’t it weird because you fucked them and they’ve seen your Willy

[jamesgoldman]

Nah between spin the bottle and other relationships, most people have seen parts of each other

[RavVid]

I think it is more a matter of having some dignity than respecting her decision.

[AngryCarl3]

Why would you go back to a girl who rejected you already? Do you really enjoy rejection that much?

[Alex-Snow]

It is your decision and it may depend on why you were dumped. But it is probably best to move on.

[Anonymous]

I mean you can contact her again i suppose, but not for a relationship. Personally I'd only contact her if she got dumped down the road, to pick her up and drop her on her ass again.😆

[LC75LC71]

The first choice but only because that gives her time to miss you.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

Where's the decision to move on but offer her 0 respect?

[dudeinohio]

Move on immediately. After my last breakup, I had a new first date that same week.

[TonyMetal___86]

Move on so easily, the girl who's going to dump me doesn't deserve my shoe!

[blackeagle007]

Move on. I wouldn’t wast my time otherwise.

[kinks1951]

Move on, she will contact you if she thinks she made a mistake

[lilBigPotato]

Just move on.

[usernameobvious]

Preach
Always move on.
Always - it sure beats legal issues.

[MissSunshine2]

Try once or twice if you want to.

[exitseven]

When it over it is OVAH.

[scott04sa22]

Depends on the circumstances

[Veronika_p]

Move on