Guys, If a girl dumped you because you hurt her and she deleted you from everything do you just forget about her and move on?

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A) So do you ever think about her and want to go back or do you just get over it and forget about her, like she didn't exist?
B) Like has anyone hurt a girl they actually loved or do you just hurt girls you don't care about?

motownplayer2000 · Accepted Answer

We are all humans.. we hurt people. Intentionally, unintentionally, it’s a part being human and the human experience. However, do I try to go back after her? Nope. If she is not mature enough to express her feelings in a mature manner, I'm out. Will I think about her? Depends on how memorable and impactful she was in my life.. if I had to wait on her hand and foot like a spoil child, she only took took took.. thinking she was the prize the whole time. Not an all. But usually the opposite is usually better in that they usually can express themselves and are mature to handle hurt. So the opposite of being that spoiled girl will actually not dump me, she would understand live concepts and would act accordingly to ensure that we are still together.

TonyMetal___86 · Accepted Answer

How can i forget a girl whom i hurt? I mean it's not like she have removed from everything without a reason, in the end it's my fault, if i'm the one who made a fault and hurt her than i'm not ashamed to say it or to run away and pretend that i did nothing wrong, i'll go to her and tell her that i'm sorry and ask her if she can forgive me, even if she doesn't want to return but i'll be comfortable that i have fixed my fault and will be able to sleep at night without having bad thoughts...

I mean i surely would hope that she forgives me and we return together but what's important to me is that i fix my fault cause i don't like anyone to feel hurt by me but in the end i'm a human being and make mistakes sometimes, i'm not perfect!

Kaneki05 · Answer

Gonna guess this question is you thinking about a guy who's hurt you. Best advice is just to leave it alone.
But anyway to answer the question, I mean it heavily depends whether I thought I was in the right or wrong. Afterall one is only going to care and regret if they realised they were in the wrong.

I am not usually the one in the wrong, but I've had a few times of been so and ultimately it was a thing to learn for future and grow. Not a chance to say sorry and try to go back.
The damage had been done, and yeah you can repair in cases but most importantly is repairing one self. So the one who is in the wrong figuring out why they were so and learning to be better. Only then can you try to also amend a relationship, but a lot of people don't learn from mistakes quickly or it hurts progress of doing so if there was no consequence of that. And trust me getting back together can feel like there was no consequence.
Hence why people then just repeat their actions.

A) I always think about my Ex's but that's just me. I've moved on but they are part of my history so always there. And yeah I do regret some choices or hate their choices and wished it could've worked out but that's not reality.

B) I've had 2 true loves of my life so far, and one I broke up with because I was a fool and only through that dumb act did I realise how much I love her. So yeah I hurt them and myself.
People hurt each other whether they love them or not. So one can't use that as a judgement if they love you or not. You can't really know unless there is a one sided pattern, and even then they may love you but are just toxic the way they are.

The best answer is not to worry whether they did or not the best answer is to move on if their behavior is not a thing you need. And hope they have some reflection so they can learn for the future making them a better person, while you can hopefully find someone who already is that better person.

HippoDino · Answer

I haven't been dumped for hurting someone, but if i had been and I cared about her I certainly would think about her, but she wouldn't live. im my head constantly just occasionally. Also I always apologize if I do anything to hurt them, and wouldn't do anything that would be so severe like cheating that would make someone immediately block me.

Der_Ritter · Answer

If a girl broke up with me and blocked me cause I hurt her it was usually in retaliation for something she did. In the past Id be really hung up on that person badly because I bond strongly and I'm overly passionate however nowadays I tend to stand my ground on things and walk away on my own with only temporary sorrow and move on with my life as if she were never there.

Bricealan · Answer

I have to answer this way: A girl I liked very much, inadvertently stepped on my feelings one time, and I felt so shitty about it, I stood her up for a very classy, formal 'ball' at Kent State university. I felt stupid and went back on campus and to her dorm much later and her room mate was there and we talked, but not much I could do to undo the damage. Never saw her again.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

If I cared about her, I can't just forget, this actually happened to me recently, well something similar in that case, I do still think of her sometimes, i still pray for her as well and hope she's alright, not much more I can do, i surely don't hold grudges tho, not much I can really do lol

love_conquers_lust · Answer

Move on, but don’t forget.

A) Always remember regrets and joyful moments as long as memory serves

B) Never officially professed love, but it certainly hurt like it was love. Some of it was accidental, some coincidental, and some just me being dumb.

Starrrboy · Answer

Can you handle the truth? lol.. Yeah, guys ( or people in general ) hurt the girls they don't care about.. And even if they came back it's because they know they broke the person so they'll always have power over them and they'll always be easy to manipulate and emotionally blackmail... this is actually how most abusive and toxic relationships work..

AmeerX · Answer

In the past I kept trying to talk to her in person. But now I just forget about it.

You can't make a person love you. Heck you can't make someone do anything at all. If they talk to you, good, if not, it's alright.

I need to be exceptionally attached to be able to do something to take action.

Forget love or friendship, we can't make anyone do anything by forcing them. It's all a vain effort

BourbonAndBacon · Answer

As soon as its over its time to move on. Be sad for a few days and then get to work on yourself, level up, get busy and move on. Never look back

Billlewis · Answer

Probably not, because if I screwed up, I'd want to try to make it up to her.

slatyb · Answer

If I knew that I had behaved badly, I would apologize.

bradley142 · Answer

i won't say forget about her maybe give hr time see if she forgives you

Worst · Answer

I'd have sex with her brother

Anonymous · Answer

Nah i don't chase her time to bring new toy to play...

bananathunder · Answer

I don't hurt girls :P

eagle1951 · Answer

with a heavy heart

gamerboy1x · Answer

Sorry im here for the exp lol

Anonymous · Answer

Easily move on...

Guys, If a girl dumped you because you hurt her and she deleted you from everything do you just forget about her and move on?

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