How do I tell my married coworker her office flirtation is wrong?

[Anonymous]

She married but not happy in marriage and this guy been giving her attention and supposedly even flirted with her she knows it wrong and says he the one giving her the attention and she doesn’t want be mean and shoo him away

[ohsheeT]

You're in one of those positions that you're the one that's going to get hurt in the long run because you care about one of your friends

Sometimes you just have to let things go or you can present it to her like this so if your husband is at his office right now doing the same thing with a girl how would that make you feel would you like it

And depending on the answer she gives you like I said there's some people that won't do the right thing and get a divorce before they cheat

They cheat thinking that they're never going to get caught And then of course they get caught And it just makes everything twice as bad

But you're a good friend for trying save it look it's the wrong thing to do and that's all you can say and let her do it when she gets caught she'll understand that you were trying to be a good good friend

But the thing is is you can only say it like once or twice if you keep harping on it then that's when you will be hurt and she will take out all the anger on you

[robocop666]

politely say it to her. or just ask her does she think it is appropriate

[HollyK21]

She loves the drama and apparently so do you. That’s why she’s flirting with this guy along with telling you that you look like a couple with a married man. I’d never be friends with someone so messy if I were you but hey that’s just me, enjoying a drama free life.

[AviatorTom]

Why bother? Let her and the guy do whatever they want.

If you try to tell her not to do it, she'll probably ignore you anyways.

[OlderAndWiser]

This may bother the hell out of you, but why is it your business?

[wiccanwitch379]

This might make u and other upset. But,
Pretty much it is not ur concern. It her life not urs. If she sexual harassing take it to H. R. but she have a choice. Leave her alone. This is why the way we are it not ur business you are not the one married and doing the flirting. How about worry about ur self. Unfortunately a lot of replies will not be this blunt. If it harm u or making u uncomfortable speak to management or H. R. just know H. R. can’t keep there mouth shut one bit these days just like management 🤣🤣. So it will get back to the person and u will have a black cloud over ur head knowing the person that snitch’s because she don’t like what she see. Office flirting happen all the time around employees or not around other employees. Do u your job and follow ur job description and you be fine. We as people can’t help being in someone else business. Why do you care if she flirting, how do you know her marriage relationship is not an open marriage relationship behind closed doors. Just saying leave her alone. When karma comes and it will she will get caught until then. Go to work and focus on you.

[Wholesome_Glory]

Distraction is a slow erosion of the spirit and life is far too short to settle for the hollow echoes of illicit games. You are capable of a much higher standard than temporary indulgence. When you demand more from your existence and seek a path defined by integrity and lasting significance you stop needing the validation of a coworker and start living for something that actually endures. Choose the weight of your own honor over the cheap thrill of a secret. You were meant for a life of purpose that commands respect rather than one that hides in the shadows. Make your days count for something truly noble.

[Anonymous]

you better mind your own business. because one day those two will turn against you and the office will be a toxic place for you to return to. You never ever mess with those who you work with. Whatever happens to them is only THEIR business. It has nothing to do with you

[Asker]

Thank you mam

[lightbulb27]

just tell her it's wrong nad to work on her marriage.

but people want to feel good and if its all stress balls at home, they run to the next thing. without support and training, thats what they do. some use drugs/meds/food, etc..

peoples wrong is relative. asking someone to suffer and do hard work... you can propose it but not likely to go well.

[OneViewpoint]

Why do you think you have the obligation or the right to lecture anyone else based on your morality? You're barely an adult. Why don't you just fuck off and mind your own business. Leave other people to make their own choices.

[MissSunshine2]

I'd stay out of it. They're both consenting adults and even if it's wrong, it's just going to make you look like a troublemaker, interfering. What I do is stay out of all of those things and only talk about work.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

What is your benefit in telling her what she already knows?

Because if that benefit is about using her to make yourself looking better then I'd say that's automatically wrong.

[midnightmoon05]

You should go tell her husband. To get back in her,.. flirt with him wink wink…

you should also tell your boss… have fun creating drama!!

[Anonymous]

It's her life.
And she can make her own decision. I would suggest just respect her choices, because adultery is her choice.
She is being a bad person with her own choices.
Sometimes it might be the right choice, because what if both of them are unhappy and trying to find someone new and get into a relationship.

[molonski2]

You don't tell her anything , or express any opinion because it is absolutely none of your business , just leave the entire situation be..

[beenherebefore]

Nah it's none of your business. Don't give much attention to them and stay out of it.

[slatyb]

If it's not affecting your ability to do your job, you do nothing.

[WhitneySnow]

You may not be able to convince her. I would just stay out of it.

[AngryCarl3]

Why are you trying to keep your coworker in an unhappy marriage? And what business of yours is it anyway?

[Staximus]

You can tell people to not do stupid or bad things, but that’s not going to stop them from being a stupid or bad person.

[genericname85]

How exactly is that your business? It's her life not yours.

[Anonymous]

Just tell her you do know what you doing is wrong maybe she hoping someone take her up on it
What you think she say if one she flirting with say ok let's fuck

[Asker]

She said she not getting it at home

[noohair]

This is not your issue. Stay far away. When HR gets involved, you don't want your name attached to this in any way...

[msc545]

You don't. You stay out of it because it's none of your business.

[ThisSiteSux]

Politely mind your own business and don't worry where she gets her dick. You sound jealous and nosey

[jazzy34]

Sounds like you don’t have enough to do at work.

[Asker]

Meee?

[SamIam96]

You don't. Mind your own business.

[FrodoSkywalker007]

I think you need to remind her of her commitment

[Asker]

Have done

[Asker]

She’s not happily married

[Kelly6]

It’s not your business

[NotSomeUserName]

Tell her that it is a bad idea.

[fantasticass]

Whocares 🤣

[jahaims]

Not your place

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