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Search Results: what turns guys on
Is anyone else genuinely okay with nobody finding them attractive?
I’m a guy who is 22 and will turn 23 next month. I’m not particularly attractive, and I’m short, standing at just 5’4”. No one has ever really had a crush on me. Last year, I met a girl and we became close, but...
sagahsvs
Xper 1 Age: 22 How to pick up the pieces of a shattered association?
There's been a guy in my life the past few years who constantly pushes his way into my life then goes cold. No, not "cold" bc "cold" would be good. He leaves me with a mess to clean up THEN goes cold. When he wants me he...
What level of attraction do these repeated smiles and looks suggest?
At a conference, I don’t know this guy personally—he was on the band. One time I was leaving the bathroom and as I turned the corner he saw me. His eyes got wide, he smiled, and waved at me while still walking with...
Anonymous
(18-24) Are age gaps okay?
if the guy i’m talking to is 18 and i just turned 22 and was born 2004 is that too much of an age gap or is it ok? he has made it clear he is pursuing me. and told me he’s ok with the age gap and asked me if i was too and...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why do many men avoid dating single mothers or being someone’s plan B?
This is a story that came across my feed. Please note, this is not something that happened to me or anyone i know. For all i know, it could be a fake story. The story goes this guy was super into this girl all the way...
Anonymous
(36-45) Trump supporters, how do you defend his Iran MOU and still back him?
I am no MAGA Trump supporter, but I didn't hate the guy either. How can you defend the Iran deal? The Iranian military was degraded and its economy on the brink. US goals were either achieved, or on their way there. The...
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Xper 5 Age: 25 Would you date a person that has Asperger's Syndrome and Bipolar Disorder?
I'm writing a story where the girl who has never been in a relationship before falls for a guy with this. He lives with his brother and although he could live on his own, he chooses to live with his older brother who...
Has your relationship with God ever saved you from an abusive partner?
Years ago, I was dating my first boyfriend and we were having communication problems and then another guy I thought was more attractive then the guy I was with began to show interest in me, I turned him down at the last...
Why do some people turn vindictive and spiteful after rejection?
One guy kept trying to ruin my reputation and sabotage my new relationship after I rejected him because he can’t accept the fact I am happy. Another guy tried to steal my credit card information after I rejected him...
How do I change my view on men?
I turned 23 this year, and since middle school I haven't been able to view any guy in a positive light with my dad being the only exception. in middle school my mom moved us to the area I live in to this day, it's...
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Xper 1 Age: 31 What’s the craziest real-life drama or story you’ve ever been in?
For me When I was 21 and in College I met my today boyfriend (who was 24 back in the day) It was early times of our relationship. One Time I was at the bar and there were guy (i think my boyfriend knows) tryna approach...
Anonymous
(25-29) What common things men do without realizing are super unattractive?
OMG, you guys! I was trying to have a peaceful, holy moment at the beach yesterday—you know, just me, the seagulls, and the majesty of the Lord—when it was completely ruined. There were these guys, strutting across the...
leannegrayson
Xper 4 Age: 20 Is it normal at 24 to be single with no dating experience yet?
Hello, I just turned 24 and have never been in a relationship or a sexual encounter. i’m not someone that guys come up to and compliment or ask out. Which is pretty obvious due to the fact that I’ve never had a boyfriend....
Anonymous
(18-24) Do you also value genuine human relationships?
I really hate that because Im not a museum piece. I’m completely turned off by guys (and girls) who are obsessed with the "status" lifestyle - like the looksmaxxing crowd, the "bros," or the people constantly obsessed...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girls, if you dated a guy who’s place smelled like lavender or other feminine scents would you be turned off?
Lets say you’re dating a guy and go to his place for the first time. He seems nice and the place is neat but it smells like a floral scent basically. Would that turn you off?
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Master Age: 42 
How does trauma play into your fantasies?
So i know the nonconsensual consensual play and bdSm can be linked to trauma and can influence what you get turned on by. Concerning myself, I've had a lot of bad experiences with men and sometimes men at work. Like this...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why did he turn mean and suddenly leave right after we got so close?
I started dating a guy back in early Jan. We hit it off right away. Every date he would always have little comments, tho, telling me I deserve better, should run, and that this is him. We've both been through bad...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is this online guy emotionally manipulating me or is it really my fault?
I matched with a guy online but never met him, we arranged 3x and each time something happened, he was asleep till 4pm and then his phone broke He said was we would meet but never did because of how he looked and the...
Anonymous
(30-35) Am I wrong to ask my girlfriend to block her ex and how do I confront her?
A guy my girlfriend has been with sent her a message on Instagram and I kindly asked her to just block him and she got defensive Then this turns into an argument and she finally blocked him But then I noticed 1-2...
Anonymous
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