"Karen’s two young children were fathered by two different men neither of whom is her husband, and hubby is none the wiser.
By all accounts, Karen’s husband is very successful financially and Karen is adamant that she loves him. “I love my husband.” She says. ” He has given me a comfortable and stable life. Because of his great job and his ability to provide me and my children with resources, I will never divorce him.”
Yet in the same article she says: Do you ever feel guilty? If so, how do you manage those feelings?
"For me, I’ve never felt any guilt about any of the affairs I’ve had. I’ve often said that I’m like a man-I can fuck men the way men fycj women, without any guilt-and get right back into bed with my husband at night without the slightest tinge of remorse." Here is another study from 2005. This was 10 years ago.. and society has changed quite a bit since then. Quality of women has declined even more.
One in 25 fathers is not biological parent
1 in 25 is not the father now imagine what the rate of cheating is lol...
"Their review of estimates of so-called paternal discrepancy over more than 50 years suggests the father was not the natural parent in between 1% and 30% of cases."
That study may say they aren't the biological father, but that doesn't mean it's due to cheating. My father is not my biological father, but that's because I am adopted. My mother is not my biological mother either, for the same reason. My friend has 4 kids, none of them are her husband's kids. He adopted them after they got married because their dad gave up his rights. There's always more to a story than people realize.
As far as this woman, people like that disgust me. If you can't be faithful, get the f**k out of the relationship. This issue isn't just pertained to women, though. A friend of mine raised her husband's illegitimate child who resulted from him cheating on her. The same happened with my neighbor. The issue goes waaaay back. It has always been acceptable for men to cheat and the wives were just supposed to turn a blind eye. Many many if those men father "bastard" children. Over time, women started to feel that if men can do it, then why can't they. The issue isn't male vs female. It's more along the lines of what society deems acceptable and people not having respect for others, morals and plain ole common decency. The only difference between men being cuckolded and women not, is that men don't give birth. A woman will know if his child isn't hers, IF she even knows about the child. A woman can have a child and the man could possibly be oblivious. Then again, he may know and just accepts it. Just because a woman thinks her husband doesn't know, does not mean that he is indeed unaware. You have to think about ALL possibilities instead of just what is on the surface. Things are not always what they seem.
Honestly , men do this all of the time. It doesn't make it justifiable but I admit it's nice to see the script flipped.
I feel like she is cold and shouldn't be in a marriage. She did not take her vows seriously. If other men is what she desires in her marriage at least be honest with her husband about it.
Being a husband isn't a bad idea these days, Find someone that is worth taking that chance with.
Oh yeah all "men do this all the time". Gotta love generalizations. Everyone does it. That's like saying all woman are cold hearted. But as soon as a guy exposes a woman for her wrong doing he is always branded as a woman hater. Just watch an episode of Oprah.
@Bysshe Not in the same sense but some still do a huge betrayal and abandon you with a baby which doesn't make it any better in my view.
@MrChadeo920 for someone who isn't like i described you take such huge offense ! I could have sworn I was talking about you for a second... Clearly, I mean some men. I haven't met the while population of men so how could I say all? It's amazing that you only chose to read that one line of my sentence instead of everything. I do not know what you mean when you are speaking about men exposing a woman and people calling him a woman hater. If you think those are my views you're doing just as much generalizing as you accuse me of. If you're familiar with my posts you would know I hate generalizations and stay clear of them myself.
@crystalt70 thanks for your defense and seeing what I meant.
@Stacyzee I also hate generalizations and I hate when people put words into your mouth or try to make it seem like you meant something completely different than what you intended.
@staycyzee oh know definitely read your whole post. It's just that when you don't specify "not all men" some may take that as you saying "all men". Just if I were to post something saying "women do this" or "women do that" it just doesn't make any sense because not all women are like that. All I'm saying is that you need to clarify. Some may take it the wrong way. But as for your post I do agree that this particular woman is in the wrong. And I personally would never stay with a woman like that.
@MrChadeo920 I get what you're saying which is why I try to word myself carefully here. I usually insert the word "some" or "many" for that reason but in this instance I forgot to. I hate generalizations and try to stay for a way from them myself.
No because guys do the same thing, and usually it seems more common for them to cheat than the women. She obviously doesn't love him like she claims, or she would never do any of that. If this story is true then she's a slut and i feel bad for him.
The accepted thinking that men cheat more than women is just not true, men and women cheat equally and the research has proven that about one third of men in committed relationships cheat. The same research shows that about one their of women in committed relationships cheat, it is not that women have suddenly started to cheat in greater numbers. The reason for the change in numbers is that on the standard tests that were used in the past, women simply lied about their sexuality. The new tests they have stated to use, has exposed that how woman defines cheating for herself is different than how a woman defines a man cheating.
Men are not being cuckolded any more today, than they were a hundred years ago. What makes it seem that a large number of them are, is that women are telling the truth more as well as the way questions on servays are done.
A few years ago a major university DNA tested about 500 married women with more than one child, they were surprised to find that one third of these some had at least one child that was not fathered by their husbands. All the women in the servay, had have had their chikdren a few years after they had been married.
The simple fact is, that more women marry a man for his money and social position than because they love the man. All women claim they are in love with their husbands, because they don't want to be seen as gold diggers or social climbers.
@ Kip22: Sorry to burst your bubble, but the research and DNA evidence do not support you. The one third of married women with more than one kid, having at least one child that is not the husbands is world wide and cuts threw all cultures and religions.
No way is it a majority. But, it is probably much higher than what people would guess.
The politically incorrect truth is that there are far more women who want to settle down, have kids, etc. than there are 'alpha males', let alone 'alpha males' who want to do the same. Therefore, many, many women end up settling with men who don't excite them, and therefore the temptation to cheat is there. This is becoming more and more of a problem, because more and more men are emasculated by feminism and therefore unattractive.
I don't know if that's true, and I'd doubt it's a majority but I think it's more prominent than what other people lead on to, and cuckolding wasn't originally a sexual fantasy, it was the word used for a man who's wife cheated on him and bore children that weren't his, not the fantasy thing we know of today. And I've always wanted to get married but after reading this kind of stuff in not too sure, lol.
Aside from the circumstances of people knowing that children ar not their own because of adoption or step children. I still believe a large number of children are born of infedelity than would be expected. This is why I think paternty testing should be mamdatory at birth. Watch and see how he behaviours of women change then, also it works for both men and women. The child will always be hers.
The women quality is declining... well men are not used to faithful so why complaint? You are just getting the same quality. Well for faithful husbands... felt bad for u to choose wrong wife
"Cuckold historically referred to a husband with an adulterous wife and is still often used with this meaning. In evolutionary biology, the term cuckold is also applied to males who are unwittingly investing parental effort in offspring that are not genetically their own."
If I was married, and found out my wife was cheating on me, I wouldn't even hesitate. I'd kick her out on the street. The same goes for women if your guy is cheating on you. Why stay with him?
Another thing guys, think long and hard before you ask a woman to marry you this day in age. That's all I'm saying. That or just don't get married it's safer that way.
It’s more than people think, partly because it’s more accepted, partly due to it becoming more widely known through the internet and partly because men find it a turn on. I personally find it a massive turn on and she definitely enjoys herself! As for our black visitors we’ve had no complaints!
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Cuckolding had been around forever. Shakespeare made numerous references to it in his plays.
It's as old as humankind. It's ingrained into the female brain to seek out the best genes for her children and to provide for them.
Religion had some control over it until the sexual revolution and the breakdown of traditional values.
Yeah maybe in the usa but over here its the csa and there are ways around them. Woman down the worked for the csa chasing up fathers snd she couldn't even get any money off him. Over here the mother gets the home if the child is under 16 and state supports her until then after that she has to get a job. She wouldn't be able to get her hands on half the shit but she would half the debts. Besides it our shit not my shit and I would get half of anything she owns.
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