All Questions

How do I break my pattern of dating liars and cheaters?

I have dated liars and cheaters for about 10 years now and I don't understand why? Maybe I always pick the alpha male? The outgoing one? I've tried and tried but all of my ex's never fail to lie and cheat and I dump them...

Anonymous

(36-45)

A guy said "she's playing coy",what did he mean?

this one guy from my uni, has been staring at me for like a couple of months. actually, I didn't see a lot of interest from his part, appart from his intense eye contact and sitting near me,sometimes. so he said this...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Leather leggings, yay or nay?

link Do you like the look? Do you consider it casual enough to wear on campus?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Why did he invited me to a movie night in his room and behave that way?

This guy I've recently met asked me to come over to his room to watch a movie a few days ago. I met him a month ago and he is always around: he talks to me almost every day on fb, he always joins me and my friends for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Holidays

My boyfriend might be spending New Year's Eve without me - is this a bad thing?

So me and my boyfriend have known each other for over six months. We have had a "thing" for five and a half months but started dating officially for about three and a half months. On Christmas Eve he was at my house for a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

I friendzoned myself. help?

Been talking to a guy for a month, every day. he seemed very keen, we planned on meeting up for a first day. Then during a disagreement I started I said that we need to be just friends numerous times. He never agreed, I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Is it weird to wear button up shirts all the time?

i mostly wear button up long sleeve shirts. I usually were like striped or solid colored shirt and with jeans and toe-laced boots.im just used to wearing shirts. but sometimes I will see other guys looking cool in...

cougarman

Xper 5 Age: 41

What does it mean if a guy friend massages your ankle and kinda your feet?

So, I was sitting across from my guy friend and I had my legs resting on a chair, he was next to my legs/feet. He just started to kinda like massage my ankles and touching my feet. He was also looking me straight in the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Baby daddy left me for another girl but comes around?

We were together 4 years I lost it to him we have a 10 month old baby he left 4 months ago on sept 12, 2013 but got with this girl I knew 2 weeks after leaving me but he has not stop coming to have sex with me tells me he...

Chikkiss

Xper 4 Age: 36

Why do women want to wait till their 30 to settle down?

shouldn't your husband get your best years that your giving to other men? At least it would seem that's how it should be

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

14 year old girl flirting with me?

First off this girl is the 14 year old step-daughter. Of a close friend of my father's. And I am 21 years old. She used to never really talk to anyone. Then recently after a joint family trip she starting to talk to me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Guys can you tell what kind of underwear a girl is wearing under yoga pants/legging?

Okay, so I know some girls wear thongs every time they wear these pants and some wear boy shorts. I wanna know, guys when you look at a girls ass in yoga pants or leggings, can you tell if she's wearing a thong or boy...

Ilovepenguins

Xper 5 Age: 29

Is teenage dating overrated?

I don't know about you all, but it really irks me when I see 2 teenagers neck deep in a relationship. I understand that some married couples were high school sweethearts (which is actually pretty sweet), but people often...

ohhaidurr

Xper 6 Age: 33

Guy's Behavior

Things to write in Christmas card to a new boyfriend?

We've been dating for less than a month and exchanging presents in a few days. I got him something he would really like, a formal card, and also decided to be cute and personalized by creating a card for him as well :)...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are ankle socks on a guy attractive or are they not?

Are ankle socks on a guy attractive or not? I wear them all the time and was just wondering.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does having a long neck make a person more attractive ?

do you notice when a person has a long neck? i think it looks graceful and sexy on my boyfriend. i've also recently noticed that most idols have this feature.

COCOCHANEL

Master Age: 40

Why didn't he text me "Merry Christmas"?

I've been talking to this guy for about 2 weeks. We've been texting everyday. Usually he is the one to initiate the conversation but I do too sometimes. Yesterday we were texting and he stopped replying mid conversation...

christine940000

Xper 5 Age: 32

How to tell if someone blocked you on iMessage?

I had this crush, and I asked her out, we haven't talked in a while and I wanted to text her a friendly Merry Christmas, and maybe we can reconcile, but as soon as I send a message it says "Not delivered", than it gives...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

My girlfriend sent naked pics to other guys?

Basically , my girlfriend and I had trouble and I was feeling bad in our relationship ( we didn't talk , and I felt sad and I was doubting our relationship) She saw a conversation of me and a girl-friend about my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are we attracted to people who look like us?

so I met this guy and I found him quite attractive the first time I saw him and there was something about him that pulled me towards him and I didn't know what it was. I have a twin brother.So then I tell my bff about...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He never buys me anything

Ok this has been bothering me lately and I just want an opinion before I talk to my boyfriend about it. We've been dating for 4 months now and I'm 4 years older than him. I'm a very thoughtful women and I like to make my...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My girlfriend doesn't want to get intimate?

Hey all, I am in this relationship and everything is fine. She loves me a lot so do I. We are in the same college. But the thing is whenever my talks come to intimacy she ignores it. And on asking why she just says she...

WannaBeStranger

Xper 5 Age: 31

If a guy doesn't text Merry Christmas but has your number? Thoughts? You not interested?

You're good friends with this girl who is shy. You have her number but you don't text her Merry Christmas are you not interested? You are an outgoing guy you talk to her quite a lot, flirt with her, tease her a lot.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

My ex girlfriend wants to be fwb?

My ex girlfriend broke up with me three months ago. I'm still not exactly sure why. It was not a clean and certainly not a kind, or easy one. Read my previous questions if you would like to know details. I have...

ged89

Xper 5 Age: 36

What does it mean when a guy pokes your sides?

I have a guy I work with who does this to me daily. He'll be like hey and then he'll poke me in the sides or he'll come up behind me and poke me on the sides. Then he says don't get dunked on when he's in my way and I say...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I give a girl butterflies/build attraction over text?

I asked my best female friend to hook me up with one of her friends. She showed my picture to some of her friends and one of them liked me. So we started texting a bit. Note that I have NOT met this friend of hers yet!...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

My girlfriend doesn't post anything about me on Facebook

She listed me as her boyfriend for a while, but she then hid her relationship status. She takes pictures with me all the time, but almost never posts them. If she does, she won't even mention the fact that I'm her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirty Christmas text to send to a girl I like, any ideas?

This might sound silly but should I text this girl I really like happy Christmas? I think she like a me to but I'm not 100 percent. What sort of thing should I send her? I don't want it to come across as friendly I want...

Anonymous

(30-35)