Oh goodness me! I'm shy in a sense, like when I'm around strangers or guys I find attractive my body tenses and I stutter and say the most random, stupid things! But when I get more relaxed and comfortable in their presence, my normal self emerges. However it's a totally different story around my crush and the worst thing is that I'm 90% sure he has a crush on me too! When I'm around him my legs shake like crazy and my voice gets deeper! But the worst part is the fact that he flirts and touches me quite a lot (places like the back of my neck and on my shoulders), and my reaction is to ignore him! I noticed him staring at me once and he didn't look away when we made eye contact, I looked away. It's not because I'm disinterested - I'm VERY interested - it's because I'm terrified due to having no experience with romantic relationships and that's my coping mechanism. I'm pretty sure my crush tried to subtly ask me out by asking "What was I doing later that night?" but I didn't even realise that he maybe was trying to ask me out. Instead I thought he was just asking out of curiosity and I didn't want to seem boring so I told him I was going out with friends. It didn't occur until afterwards that he might've been asking me out. This sort of thing happens to me whenever I really like someone!
Anyway, if you like a shy girl, the best thing I can advise is to start a conversation and see if it flows. It will hopefully make her feel at ease and less awkward. Let's say you're sitting next to her on a bus for example, you could start with a simple "Hi, How are you?" Then ask what she studies and ask her questions about it. Or you sit next to her in the library, you can ask what she's reading and make it flow from there. Good luck!
That depends on her level of shyness.
I'd say that I'm pretty shy. It takes quite some time for me to open up to people, and I often struggle to make conversation when I'm in the early stages of getting to know someone. And when I have a crush on someone, it usually takes a lot of time for me to actually start showing it. Like, I won't have a problem talking to him, but it will definitely take a while for me to become more comfortable with flirting or hinting that I'm interested.
So, for girls who are more like me, all you've got to do is make sure you reach that level of comfort with us. Then we'll start opening up and showing interest, slowly but surely. I often start out by holding prolonged eye contact. Then I start giving compliments, and I'll also begin to playfully tease him. Lastly, I might even confess to him. However, this is a very long process, and it could take a year for me to confess how I truly feel lol.
If you're interested in a shy girl, all you've gotta do is try to get her to relax more around you. Don't be intimidated by the fact that she might be too shy to initiate contact with you. Chances are that she will, at some point, tell you that she appreciates it. And if not tell you, then she'll somehow show it to you. Be sure to give her some space, though. You don't want to overwhelm her. Simply take things slow and make sure that you show her you like her. She'll start opening up eventually. :)
I usually don't like to label myself shy but I use it as a default anyway. What I mean my this is that its really hard for me to approach new people in the beginning. Conversations are hard to keep but if we talk consistently enough I open up a lot faster and more. As for guys I have a crush on or find attractive then I'm pretty much screwed because I'm just a big clumsy shy mess. I get tongue tied and my mind goes blank. So chances are I'll mostly just stare A LOT lol. Make eye contact but look away quickly because I get embarrassed. If I was approached it would be a lot easier for me to open up and I actually wouldn't be as shy. If I knew him and knew he also felt the same then I wouldn't have a problem making the first step. I don't know if that helped but yeh some girls may seem shy but they really aren't.
Shy girls are a nightmare if you like independent girls.
- You never really get to know them before suddenly open up. Then they might go on to say stuff too early.
- They often get overly attached
- They are clingy
- They plan stuff way ahead in time at early stages in the relationship
- They often text you way too much
- They try too hard to please you
- They are inexperienced
I know it sounds amazing in theory, but in reality it's actually quite stressful.
This is happening for me these days, a shy girl is falling for me, and you know the rest!!! I was singing with my guitar, she couldn't watch me. She started to watch me using her camera pretending that she's filming the scene.
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Yup we act exactly the way uninterested girls do.
Being 21 now I realize how many guys I pushed away. God I was in love with this guy when I was 18 and in the first year of college. I ignored and avoided him to the point that he stopped talking to me but it was because I was too shy.
Do I ever regret that now.
I get kind of shy around guys I like. In class, I will try not to look at him a lot, but if I think he's not looking at me I'll sneak peeks at him. I'll sometimes have trouble thinking of things to say to him and avoid eye contact when talking with him. I tend to play with my hair a lot when he's around.
Being a shy girl myself, I more or less stare at my feet whenever I'm around anyone. If I'm around my crush and I'm good friends with him then I'm a bit more outgoing and I'll smile a lot. When talking I'll look anywheres but his eyes, so that could be behind him, his nose, his mouth, etc.. I also fidget with my fingers a lot as a way of calming myself, since I'm never around him. If I'm not good friends with them then I'll often stare at them in hopes that they'll come up and talk to me. Shy girls are quiet so if she's not talking very much it's not a bad thing, it just means that she doesn't want to say something weird that'll make you want to leave or avoid her. If you do like a shy girl then the best thing you can do is talk to her and try to become friends. Ya gotta be friends before you can be lovers.
Relationships would be dull if everything was predictable. I'm extremely shy and if I like a guy, it would be hard for me to maintain eye contact with him. There's no real way to know if someone really likes you unless you ask. If she's really shy, she's probably waiting for you to make a move
Okay im gonna let u in on a little secret
Most shy girls are very smart. some want to hide their feelings but if they are feeling gutsy they will look at you and smile and look away quickly. They will probably do this continuously until u get the hint okay? Okay (:
If I'm around my crush I don't talk to him. I get extremely nervous. If I'm not interested in him I won't shut up.
I remember how when I sat by my crush on the bus I wanted to talk but didn't talk. When I have a crush I glance at them a lot. Watch how she interact with other guys and watch how she react with you. If She's quiet around you, then she is. Talk to her, like I wish my crush did. Get closer to her and the signs will be clearer.
If i like someone i act as if i don't. I also avoid galking to him since i don't want to embarass myself. If I did make a fool out of myself in front of him i would think about it obsessively. But I can't even look at him these days everytime i do he's already looking. I guess he found out I like him despite my efforts.
For shy girls when the guy is around it will make us nervous as hell. Head will go blank and we don't know what to talk hahaha. So we ended up avoiding and talk to them lesser so we won't make a fool of ourselves
I am a wreck near guys I find attractive. I don't really look at them. I try to not make it obvious at all.
All I can say is that the chances of you having a decent conversation will go up when it's just the two of you rather than in a group of people.
She'll mostly avoid eye contact, and if she's like me, she'll blush LIKE CRAZY! :$
if she likes you and is shy she'll probably look at you every once and awhile
Ugh I ignore him but try to call their attention with my weirder ness they stare at me like I'm weird haha
Nuclear bombs in my heart , I'm dead !
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